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to be absolutely pissed off with neighbour

16 replies

fishtankneedscleaning · 22/01/2011 22:39

Ok. Both my DC's aged 9 and 5 have been feeling off colour today - high temp, sick, headache etc

This afternoon dd's friends mother called to ask if her dd (10) could come over to play. I explained that both chldren were lying on sofa asleep.

This evening (7pm) her dd knocks the door. OH answered. She said she had come to see if DD was feeling better. OH allowed her to come inside to see DD - who was by this time awake and watching TV, although still off colour.

Ten mins later i got a text off friends's mother saying, "I have just called in the pub. Keep an eye on (her dd) be back withing the hour". Ok no problem I thought.

At 9.15 (As I was trying to put LO to bed, already over an hour past her bedtime, dd's friend's brother (12) phoned to ask me to go over as he was on his own and was scared because he heard a noise outside.

I stayed with him and called his mum to come home. She did not reply to phone call. I texted her twice. At 10pm I called again. Neighbour answered and said, "Ok I got your message. I'll be home when I have finished my drink. I won't be long".

She arrived home at 10.50pm - absolutely steaming!

At this point I had no option than to put her two kids to bed before I could sort out my own.

She was well aware that my own DC's were not well yet still sent her dd over here and left her 12 year ds at home just so she could go to the pub!

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mutznutz · 22/01/2011 22:42

Piss taking mare! You really need a word with her when she sobers up!

Karaishere · 22/01/2011 22:44

She has blatently taken the right piss out of you and obviously planned it all along. I would drop her like a sack of shit and do not do her anymore favours the cheeky cow but thats jmo Grin

manicbmc · 22/01/2011 22:44

YANBU What a selfish cow she sounds.

TheCrackFox · 22/01/2011 22:47

Bloody hell, that's bad.

YANBU

FaffTastic · 22/01/2011 22:47

YADNBU. Sounds as if she thought she could take you for a bit of a mug tonight. Cheeky mare.

FreudianSlippery · 22/01/2011 22:48

That is really really awful. Has she done this before?

minimathsmouse · 22/01/2011 22:49

This evening (7pm) her dd knocks the door
She arrived home at 10.50pm

Silly question: How did you manage to post this before she arrived home! then state what time she arrived home?

deepdarkwood · 22/01/2011 22:50

YABNU, in the slightest.

I would try and pull back from even small favours for a while (eg when she texts to say could you look after dd for an hour, then the answer is no - dont feel you have to give reasons, just no, sorry.... )

fishtankneedscleaning · 22/01/2011 22:51

Sorry just realized that when I read my post back. Should have read 10.30 - not 10.50. But more like 10.35.

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fishtankneedscleaning · 22/01/2011 22:54

It's a shame really as my dd and her dd are really good friends - her dd is more around here though as I have suspected for a while that she has a problem with drink.

I don't want to stop her dd from coming round as she is a really nice kid. BUT I don't want to be the unpaid babysitter either.

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minimathsmouse · 22/01/2011 22:55

Oh that's ok then, I was just about to ask if she had got back yetGrin

I would make sure she knows in no uncertain terms that her behaviour is selfish and that you are not a short notice baby sitting service.

fishtankneedscleaning · 22/01/2011 22:56

That came out wrong lol I don't wnat to be paid for looking after her DD but tonight was really cheeky I thought.

It has not happened before.

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lastresort · 22/01/2011 22:59

Oooooh, be very careful here otherwise she will start to take your 'babysitting' duties for granted.
She is taking the piss, so YANBU.

MrsNonSmoker · 22/01/2011 23:56

I'm surprised you have to ask. This is awful, esp. 12 year old being scared. She needs to apologise to her own children as well as you.

A1980 · 23/01/2011 00:26

No harm at all to your DD's friend but in a way I hope she gets what your DC's have in terms of illness.

That'll teach her not to do it again.

weefriend · 23/01/2011 14:52

YANBU but those kids are lucky you're around.

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