Good God! I care for DS completely alone, his father isn't even in the Uk and contributes nothing. I work 30 hours a week, and this fits in well with childcare. My job cannot offer me more hours, and I live in an area with high unemployment and low average wages.
They are building a tesco store in town, and there have been 520 applicants for 162 measily minimum wage jobs. The other jobs on offer in the local rag are; 1 P/T teaching assistant, hotel staff (minimum wage and antisocial hours), House keeper (ditto), care assistants, bar staff, cleaners, and a sales/admin assistant. And this is the busy run up to the tourist season, therefore by april most of these jobs offers will dry up. So, nothing better than my current job worth applying for.
I leave ds in the morning at 7.45, the earliest any childcare can take him BTW, and I pick him up at 5pm. The latest I could pick him up is 6pm, there is no (ofsted) childcare here later than this, and none at the weekend.
So even if I was able to get more child care to cover a second job, and even if I had the bloody energy to be a full time mum and work hellish hours, just when the hell would my DS get to see his only parent? I might as well leave him in care and wash my hands of him.
But of course, there goes my sense of entitlement! How selfish of me to want my son to have food, clothing, a home and a relationship with his mum. 