AIBU to want DH to come to these weddings.

[Hai1988]

me, DH and DS have been invited to two weddings in June this year and DH says he doesn't want to go to any of them.

The first one is his best mates sister's wedding and we have only been invited to the ceremony and the evening reception, to get to so I don't see the problem.

The second one is one of my best mates, so I defiantly want to go to this one and if he is adamant that he isn't going I will be going alone to this one, but I don't see why I should have to explain why I am there alone without my DH, why should I have to make excuses for him when he just cant be arsed.

So aibu or is he?

I'll go with you Hai, lol.

ok Aims80, Im sure we'll have a great time lol

My fella doesn't come to ANY family functions! He's quite antisocial tbh. I quite like going alone anyway...there's nothing worse than going to a social event with someone who is miserable and doesn't wanna be there!

I don't like weddings but do go with my DP when he gets invited to one and feels he has to go, as it's nice for him to have my company and not be standing around awkwardly on his own. He wouldn't insist that I come with him though and would be perfectly happy if I stayed at home rather than came to an event where I'd be bored and unhappy.

My husband is a bit like yours Hai. I went to my friend's wedding with our girls on Saturday and he didn't come. He was working but we knew about it ages ago so he could have got the day off if he had wanted to.

To be honest I was happy going without him, far better than having him there grumping all afternoon