It happens every day my husband seems to be permanently angry and surly these days. Just 2 examples from today I went to a preschool committee meeting this morning and when it had finished I rang him up to tell him - todays he had a rotored day off. Saw no reason why I shouldnt he was in a happy mood when I left for the meeting. He answered the phone with what do YOU want in such a nasy way. Apparently I'd interupted him when he was in the middle of doing something. Tonight I came downstairs and he had gone out without saying goodbye so I rang him up. No reply but seconds later he rang back with a nasty tone that is hard to put across. He said you rang what do you want NOW in a horrible nasty tone of voice.
He is often like this. He dissapears for ages in the eveninings either in the bath or toilet (yes I mean ages!!) He doesnt say much to me (civilly anyway.) When I try to find out why its because we dont have sex often enough. Thats also why he's moody with the kids apparantly. I told him is it any wonder when he is so unkind. THe only time he shows an interest is at night. The other night I told him how can I fancy him when he hasnt got a kind word for me or hthe family. We argued and the next day he sent a text saying sorry xxx.