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To cringe when i hear people calling their mum " mammy" ?

86 replies

Mummy2Bookie · 14/01/2011 14:14

I lived in Ireland a few years ago ( down south, countryside) and I never got used to people, both children and adults, calling their mum " mammy". In my experience it only seems to be a " down south countryside" things. I could be wrong but I never encountered it in Dublin or other areas in the northern part of the republic. It makes me cringe everytime I hear it. Even mam sounds better than mammy.

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walesblackbird · 14/01/2011 14:18

I'm Welsh and I'm mammy to my three young children. And after waiting for a very long time for my three to arrive I'm thrilled to be a mammy!

Stopped calling my mother mammy sometime ago though. She's mam. I do find it slightly odd when a friend of mine (52) calls her mother mammy.

Mummy2Bookie · 14/01/2011 14:18

I just don't like it. Don't know why. Just don't

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PinkIsMyFavouriteCrayon · 14/01/2011 14:18

It's very common here in NE England too, don't see the problem to be honest.

ClaireDeLoon · 14/01/2011 14:19

I've never been to Ireland and my mum is mam to me. When I was little she was mammy.

Why is it you dislike it? Other than that people from the countryside use it but people from Dublin don't I mean.

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narkypuffin · 14/01/2011 14:20

Isn't it a good job you moved then.

SpikyBinkle · 14/01/2011 14:22

YABU I am from the NE but live elsewhere now. I get a warm glow inside when my parents talk to my children and refer to me as 'mammy' Takes me right back to my childhood.

tigitigi · 14/01/2011 14:23

what business is it of yours, I never understand why people get so charged up about these things.

fishtankneedscleaning · 14/01/2011 14:28

I am completely baffled by your post tbh. What exactly is it about "Mammy" you don't like?

FindingStuffToChuckOut · 14/01/2011 14:28

hearing the word Mom makes me feel all weird - but I'm not about to make a thing about it.

Superfly · 14/01/2011 14:29

Is that all you really have to worry about?

What on earth has it got to do with you, and why are you so bothered by it?

BTW, my parents and nearly all of my family are from 'down south, countryside' and all use the term Mam, Mammy, or Mother.

BuzzLightBeer · 14/01/2011 14:30

How about you cringe yourself into a corner and then STFU?
Hmm

MainlyMaynie · 14/01/2011 14:31

Basically you dislike a word that is from a dialect other than your own. It's almost as bad as those funny French people saying Maman. They should know that all mothers are referred to a Mum. Inside your head. YABU.

giveitago · 14/01/2011 14:32

I call my mum mummy and ds who mixes english italian and gurariti calls me a mix of everything and it comes out a bit like 'murmy' - ok by me.

Why would you care?

giveitago · 14/01/2011 14:33

Gujarati, even.

Lizcat · 14/01/2011 14:34

I have a mummy, my DD has a muma (french/english), DH has a mother and my business partner who is from Dublin has a Mammy. Different strokes and all of that.

mamsnet · 14/01/2011 14:35

So we're just not cool enough for you then? Hmm

I shall then Fuck Right Off because I have to go ring my MAMMY

narkypuffin · 14/01/2011 14:36

Stop making me broody with your bilingual babies damn you.

working9while5 · 14/01/2011 14:38

You're just being a snob, and you know it.

It makes you cringe because you associate it with ignorant culchies, while mom is like, sooooo much better, roysh?

KurriKurri · 14/01/2011 14:38

I love 'mammy' it sounds so warm and loving.

Mymblesson · 14/01/2011 14:39

My 4 year old half-Polish son calls his mum 'mama' - how's that?

mayorquimby · 14/01/2011 14:42

I'm Irish and this makes me cringe too.
Don't know why but it really annoys me.

tigerchilli · 14/01/2011 14:42

Geordie here. I'm a 'mam' now but was 'mammy when my DC were little. Same through the numerous generations of my family.

drivingmisscrazy · 14/01/2011 14:49

not Irish, but live in Ireland - think this is widespread - In Dublin too - DD's cousin says 'mammy'; DD doesn't but that's probably because I am English. Um, it doesn't matter