...that i should just bloody do it myself?
Why does it need to wait until a leap year??
DP and i have been together for 8 years and have 2 dcs. We do plan on marrying someday but dp hasn't proposed yet due to financial reasons mainly but this year is a new year, he has a new job finally and i'm back at work.
I'd like to be married before dd1 starts school so have just over 2 years and to be perfectly honest i'm fed up of being referred to as his girlfriend when i am not a girl anymore [sob]
i don't wear jewellery as i have bad exzema which is aggravated if i wear rings etc. But i know dp won't do it without a ring! He is also not the most romantic person in the world.
BUT if i do it am i taking his chance away? Will he be ridiculed by people? I am the most dominant in relationship simply as he has an inabilty to make a decision. But i don't want him to feel emasculated (is that the right word).
What do you think? AIBU?