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Breastfeeding, in the UK today, is amiddle class pursuit

69 replies

mansfieldhouse · 03/01/2011 20:34

Discuss.

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StewieGriffinsMom · 03/01/2011 20:54

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southeastastra · 03/01/2011 20:54

i worked at a baby group for ages and the total of mothers breastfeeding was literaly about 2% and they were definitely middle class!

usualsuspect · 03/01/2011 20:56

nope its not ..the middle class would like to think it is though

BarbieLovesKen · 03/01/2011 20:56

A genuine question but slightly off topic - how is someone categorised in to a class? I have absolutely no idea whatsoever what "class" Im in

GMajor7 · 03/01/2011 20:57

Ultimately DD couldn't give a shite. She'll happily nurse at my peasant breast Grin

falsemessageoflethargy · 03/01/2011 20:58

Its self defining now barbie - the OP would have done better to use the ABCD marketeer ratings.

TheHeathenOfSuburbia · 03/01/2011 21:00

You could have done some googling and looked up the statistics.
(cause I believe there's a lot of geographical variation, too)

You could have drawn a graph, even. A graph!

But you're just inviting us to do our own research, or throw around anecdotes. Or start a fight, I suppose, that could happen too.

Sheer laziness.

Gruffalomama, what's "boogoo"? (Maybe you have one MC boob and one WC one Grin)

thebrownstuff · 03/01/2011 21:01

something in the MN water today...Iswear it

OpenToLawSuits · 03/01/2011 21:04

Perhaps it's a MC thing. Upper upper classes have wet nurses. Muah ha ha Grin

Vallhala · 03/01/2011 21:05

mansfieldhouse, t's all pretty much irrelevant unless it's known why the individuals in the study group made their decision, isn't it?

It appears to me that the association is working class mother = poorly educated and/or unintelligent = uninformed = formula feeder vs middle class mother = educated and intelligent = better informed = breast feeder.

What of those working class women who are well educated and intelligent but who chose to formula feed despite being well informed?

Discuss, OP. :o

GruffaloMama · 03/01/2011 21:07

hi heathen (great name) - it's what DS calls breasts - on our holiday this year (in tuscany - how many MC points is that? Wink ) every time we passed a lingerie shop display (disturbingly frequent) he bellowed BOOGOO!!!

I reckon you could be right about the boobs - or maybe one strawberry and one chocolate flavoured???

Serendippy · 03/01/2011 21:07

Journalism, in the UK today, is a lazy pursuit. Discuss.

ShoppingDays · 03/01/2011 21:09

Oh, a journalist.

Unrulysanta · 03/01/2011 21:15

C'mon this is MN. Everyone knows you just have to write 'breastfeeding' in your title and you'll summon 500 posts and a big fat fight within 30 seconds. I'm with Serendippy: OP has gone off to make a cup of tea and let that Daily Mail article just write itself.

Honeydragon · 03/01/2011 21:20

I totally agree

the upper classes have fox hunting
the working classes have darts
and the middle class pursue breastfeeding.

oh yes.

wATEwatcher · 03/01/2011 21:39

This is so going to be in the Mail...

I second Serendippy's quote:

Journalism, in the UK today, is a lazy pursuit. Discuss.

OP aren't you supposed to do a bit of research? Or are we it?!

PhishFoodAddiction · 03/01/2011 21:42
Biscuit

Do your own research OP!

weedle · 03/01/2011 21:49

Giving a shit about other people breastfeeding or not is a twattish pursuit. Discuss

Bechka · 03/01/2011 22:08

Write your own article.

Quattrocento · 03/01/2011 22:13

I agree that articles in the living/women sections of every major newspaper are shoddily researched.

DD(12) would do a much better job of research than this. After making Google dance, she would draw graphs with the relevant statistics, draw a few breasts, throw in a few snippets of facts about wetnurses ...

Tsk tsk OP

Teela · 03/01/2011 22:16

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CommanderDrool · 03/01/2011 22:20

I certainly do not think the middle classes have the monopoly on good parenting choices, based on my experience.

Nor do I think bf is a mc pursuit - although they bang on and on about it as if it was.

QueeferSantaland · 03/01/2011 22:24

I agree too actually, to a point.

As part of my job I have to register births and medical info etc for the mothers. One of the things I record is whether the mother is BF or AF at birth. I have recorded *thousands^ of babies and you can tell generally by a woman's address, age and even name whether she is going to try BFing.

(That being said, I buck that trend, being a young, unmarried council-estate mum who BFd all her DC on demand.)

cobbledtogether · 03/01/2011 22:24

Oh now it all makes sense!!!

I bottle fed DC1 after failing miserably to establish breastfeeding, but did Extended BF with DC2.

I though it was all about the support I had, but it turns out that its because I was brought up working class, but have since got a middle class job, so it was all down to my class, not the support. Basically, DC1 is bluecollar baby and DC2 is a bit posher.

God if only I had known this before I wouldn't have been so upset when BFing went so wrong first time. It must have been because my facebook picture made me look working class. I've since updated it to a photo of me at a wedding where I look a lot more middle class.

From now on, DC1 will only wear primark, but DC2 will get Boden, oh yes!

Halleluhjah! I have been truly enlightened!

QueeferSantaland · 03/01/2011 22:27

That's the ticket, Babyheave!Grin

Make sure you drive to the hospital in a Volvo, not an old Rover if you want to avoid mastitis, thrush, cracked nipples etc!