Just before Christmas I had the chance for a very rare night out (DH works evenings, 2 v. young DCs, usually too skint for baby sitters).
Anyway I asked one of my oldest friends if she fancied going out. She has quite a hard time - she's on her own with 3 dcs. But she does have childcare available and probably gets the chance to go out more than me.
Anyway I travelled to the other side of London to meet her (to save her travelling), looking forward to seeing her and talking properly in a bar or something.
After I'd been with her about 40mins she says 'I'm going to ring this bloke and see if he can come too, I need to flirt'.
This bloke turns up, and he's the most boring, self absorbed twat and what's worse, he was making snide comments to my friend about the fact that her kids have two different Dads.
But this seemed to go over her head. And she just blanked me so I felt like a bored gooseberry, and annoyed on her behalf and annoyed that she couldn't even seem to see what a moron this bloke was.
I know she's slept with him a few times, which is entirely her business of course. I can't understand why she invited him along when we'd already arranged to meet.
If I'd have known she was going to do that I would have much rather gone to the cinema by myself.
I haven't been able to talk to her properly since because I'm still pissed off with her.
Although I did tell her I thought he was boring.
AIBU?