We live about 100 miles from my family. I moved about 20 years ago (when I went to uni).
We visit my sister about once a month. We have lived here for 5 years (lived further away previously). She has been to see us once in the last 5 years and came once before then (always invited but never comes). She is supposed to be coming after Christmas with my parents. They visit us about once every 2 motnhs. She has just texted to say can we all go to her instead and take the food that we'd have made for them here. AIBU in being p*ssed off? Am gettign really fed up[ with always being the non drinker etc (me or dh anyway) and having to drag kids out when all their pressies are here. She is always very hosptiable when we see her but it is noce to be visited sometimes and it is so much hassle going anywhere with the kids (her kids are away so she would not have to bring them here).