I know i probably ABU, and i'm the adult etc, but just for once i'd like to be important too.
Am a regular, but have namechanged for this.
I went into hosp. saturday morning and came home yesterday. Have had a bad chest infection and lots of drips to replace fluids ect. Still feeling very rough, coughing all night, not sleeping ect. DP has been looking after our three children and has literally done bugger all else. I had to send him shopping yesterday when i got home, and then make a start on the tidying up - dishwasher hadn't been filled, washing in front of washing machine ect - nothing had been done. He'd fed them on bloody cereal all weekend and himself on pot noodles.
He's more than capable, just needs a boot up his lazy arse, so it would seem.
Anyway, he was due to have his son on Sunday, but because i was in hospital and he had the other three to look after he decided to put off seeing him and has just gone off up there today - he left at 8.15 said he's be back by six, and i'm just left thiking that's fucking great. He gets to waltz off for the whole fucking day whilst i'm stuck in the house with three under fours, i feel like shite - all i want to do is pick a corner and die in it - and somehow i have to sort everything out for Christmas too - there's nothing wrapped, i still need to buy a few presents and there won't be a turkey unless i can go and get it tomorrow.
I really don't begrudge him spending time with his son, but just for once i'd like to come first.
Sigh.
Not going to happen is it?