My auntie sometimes invites us over at Christmas time for dinner etc. We don't often go fo meals as she lives some distance away and we see her at my mum's when she visits her etc.
This time she has said that she would really like us to see her. I do like to see her and i feel unkind turning her down. But I would rather she came to us or to my mum's. This sounds horribly unkind but I've seen her cooking a few times. While her food is fine, she can cook well it's the preparation that makes me nervous.
For example I once saw her preparing duck. She lay them on the kitchen draining board to prepare them. They were raw obviously. Once she'd finished preparing them (with her bare hands) and had put them in the oven to be cooked, she didn't wash her hands and simply wiped them on a towel in the kitchen. She then didn't wash the draining board after it had had raw meat on it and washed up the cups from tea and put them on the unwashed draining board. The dish sponges look as if they haven't been replaced for years.... I tried to keep my expression neutral while I saw all this. But then again, this is standard for my aunt.
I've already had a bad bout of norovirus quite recently. However unlikely, I don't want to get ill.
AIBU to try and dodge or get her to come to my house, or should I just go?