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AIBU to think this child's mother is strange?

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auntyfash · 19/12/2010 21:04

Just had ds's birthday party, he's 7, and this one boy started to scratch the arm of my leather settee. Not just a tiny scratch, but he was writing in HUGE letters using his thumb to scratch the leather. His mum started giggling and said to him, oh what are you drawing, that's nice... so after I'd picked my jaw back up off the ground I told her son not to write on my settee. I then got a cloth and started to wipe away the marks as best I could, and being polite told her it'd probably come off as my own son had scratched it in the past and I'd managed to get the marks off. She then said oh well he probably only did it because he's got it from your son. I was gobsmacked! Not only did she encourage her son to mark my settee, but she then blamed MY son for her son doing it!

Shortly after, her son started play fighting with her, and she allowed her son to really pull her hair really hard and to ikick her. She didn't ask him to stop or tell him off, she just let him and laughed as he was doing so. I think this woman is weird.

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TheBrandyButterflyEffect · 19/12/2010 21:31

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StealthPolarBear · 19/12/2010 21:33

Shock my 3yo is no angel but he's getting to the stage where he'd know not to do that
(And if I'd been the mother I'd have told him to stop anyway)
"are you drawing a picture, that's nice?" Shock

mathanxiety · 19/12/2010 21:47

Yikes -- she's not mental, just unable to put her foot down when it comes to her own child and is being walked over by him, not surprisingly. And she seems to have no sense of boundaries for herself either.

I would drop her and her DS and find a friend elsewhere. That comment about your DS going to her house was a warning imo. It's not your job to bring up this other child and teach him manners, and if you have him over at your house, that is what you will end up doing, as well as replacing many of your possessions.

CubaCat · 19/12/2010 22:27

What the hell is an indigo child??!

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