Was supposed to have friend round for tea today, had everything ready for ham in cola. The snow started but busses were running still. Friend said she couldn't come so dp offered to get her a taxi (and pay) so we could see her before Xmas. She couldn't get a cab and claimed no busses but would keep trying. I said fine just let me know. Prepared meal no sign of friend. She wouldn't answer phone or respond to msg's and i was worried she had become stranded.finally three hours late after i left several worried messages said she wasn't coming. Dp annoyed and thought she was rude so told her so, I feel guilty because now we have all fallen out before Xmas dp says she deserves it (has done things like this a lot). Aibu? Is she? Is he?