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48 replies

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 21:56

OK this is the best thing that has happened all week being allowed back on MN as I was banned for a long time, I used to be a prolific poster and I have not been able to post for yonks. But now that I am back I need your help to get rid of this horrid sense of foreboding I have had this week. First the riots just made me feel sad and uneasy and I have a horrid feeling we are seeing just the beginning as the "bloodlust" starts. Our house is trying to wind me up we have rising damp, are spending a fortune on our heating as our pipes freeze really easily the electrics played up on friday and DH trying to fix the next thing that goes wrong tonight it was the dishwasher it has packed up totally. I feel we need to call in the Most Haunted team to exorcise some malevolent force in our house we had 2 plumbers last week and a "sparks" on Friday, I have just left a message for a washing machine engineer on his answerphone. Also my bf's marriage is breaking down and she is leaning on me for the first time ever (she is very stoical) and is always there for others. My mum had another fall this morning and my dad is struggling to cope he thinks she may need to be in a home soon. And I am scared shitless about the weather as they say the freeze is returning and will be worse than before I have to do a lot of driving for my work and I get over worried. Lastly I have started bleeding a little everyday in between the curse and I am beating myself up about it the GP has done an exam an says if it continues I can have a scan. (My aunt died of ovarian cancer so I keep dwelling....) the GP thought that when my period arrived it might sort itself out. It did arrive on time and I swear without being too graphic it was like someone had turned the tap on, Icould not go out the house all day it was that bad. I could be pre-menopausal I suppose. Look, I' m sorry to go on like this and it seems very self-indulgent but I just cannot shake off this awful feeling, I tried watching Elf earlier and it didn't work also DH has just shown me an email from his boss and he is 25k off his office target if he doesn't make it by end of March they will have to let him go. He has shown me this as he wants me to help do sme "cold calling" for him next week. I swear this is not a wind-up and I am not a troll I just need some funny distraction from you guys out there.Oh by the way I know the gynae stuff should be on the health forums but it is all related to my state of mind.

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SantasKnickersOnMyHead · 12/12/2010 21:58

Why were you banned?

TattytinsellooksDevine · 12/12/2010 21:58

You sound anxious.

Why were you banned? Grin

TattytinsellooksDevine · 12/12/2010 21:58

C'mon first things first!!! Grin

Slinkysista · 12/12/2010 22:02

So sorry you're having a worrying time. I think if you get your health issue sorted you might start putting the other stuff into perspective. Sometimes, I think, if you have an underlying worry everything else gets magnified. Please get yourself seen to asap. Worry about your husband's job in the new year (that's what I'm doing) and don't give the students another thought!
Chin up Wink

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:02

I love mn and used to do some tongue in cheek postings when I was feeling happier I did a spoof one pretending to be Peter Mandelson.. My old name was similar to this I assumed that was why I was banned!

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QueenGigantaurofMnet · 12/12/2010 22:04

spill, who were you? what got you banned for such a long time?

you have had a lot of things go wrong ina short space of time. no wonder you are looking at everything so negativly.

first things first you need to get yourself to a DR asap. your right it could be something as horrible as cancer but the chances are its probably nothing more than a bit of hormonal bleeding. but you wont know till you get checked

now come on.....

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:05

They can't do scan until the nyear the good thing is I have zero pain in that area but to be housebound because of the "time of the month" is something else!!

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GypsyMoth · 12/12/2010 22:07

did your old name start 'never........'

SantasKnickersOnMyHead · 12/12/2010 22:08

Hate guessing games.

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:08

bernadetteoflourdes was another name I posted under. This is all true but I don't care if they ban me again coz at least I can get to speak to you guys again. You have no idea how frustrating it is to peek at mnet and not be able to join in. So as I say this is one thng which has made meSmile this week.

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neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:10

toptulip yes it was neverchuckanokia@thepm but I soved Mandelson pic on my profile and I think that was why they banned me it was very frustrating...

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neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:10

shoved not soved (sorry)Blush

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SantasKnickersOnMyHead · 12/12/2010 22:11

Never heard of you.

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:13

Last posting was probably round April or May
it was a long time ago in the world of Mnet

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CaptainNancy · 12/12/2010 22:16

Not exactly "ages" in mn terms then... I was hoping for UCM!

pointythings · 12/12/2010 22:16

Don't know what age you are, OP, but could the mid-cycle bleeding be due to ovulation? That happens to me every now and then, it's bloody awful.

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:22

Captain what is UCM? Thanks pointy it seems to be every day my ds says it could be a fibroid as she had them and so did my mum. She is great as she always brings me back down to size. I always was a worrier but have a great sense of humour but it seem to have gone missing these days.....Sad

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neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:23

Pointy I am 48 in my body and 15 in the headWink

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QueenGigantaurofMnet · 12/12/2010 22:25

Captain - me too Grin

GypsyMoth · 12/12/2010 22:25

i doubt they banned you for that?? is that all you did

QueenGigantaurofMnet · 12/12/2010 22:30

that is quite minor for a proper ban.
normally they would just ask you to change yoru name/ remove the picture.

there's more int there? go on you can tell us

BeerTricksPotter · 12/12/2010 22:30

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:30

Honest I did not abuse, stalk or bully, it could have been an error but I never bothered to contact mnhq. I have just reviwed some old postings and I did use the c word a lot but so do other mnetters. Bloody glad to be back though it is chering me already.

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neverchuckaniphoneatgordo · 12/12/2010 22:31

cheering (typos are back coz I am out of practice)

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GypsyMoth · 12/12/2010 22:33

well welcome back anyways!!!

where did you normally post?