I am... but not sure what the solution is

[rachelmummy]

The father of my twins is not here during the week.

While I adore being with my twins (and under no circumstances wish to be separated from them) I am bugged by the fact that he gets to do whatever he likes 5 nights a week.

He works (I don't and he does pay for me) but he expects weekends to be him 'time off' - he expects that I still do all chores with the twins (He does play with them, but not change nappies etc)

I know that, compared to many many people, I have a good life, but I am angry that he gets to have this social life and I get the kids.

AIBU? Or should I just bite myself?

YANBU It should be a partnership and it isn't. You would be just as well off without him. If you love him and want it to work I think you need outside help-suggest Relate.

tbh he is a male chavionist pig, the fact that he doesn't think he shoudl lift a finger and doesn't actually do anything in the home whether it be lifting a mug to make you a coffee or putting his dt's to bed and reading them a story.

He a leech and a limpit both sucking you dry and hanging around doing nothing at all all day - he is cruising

I would be very tempted to change the locks and let him cruise away.

rachel do post this in 'relationships'

UANBU btw and you've had some excellent advice here but they'll help you to work things out x