I am... but not sure what the solution is

[rachelmummy]

The father of my twins is not here during the week.

While I adore being with my twins (and under no circumstances wish to be separated from them) I am bugged by the fact that he gets to do whatever he likes 5 nights a week.

He works (I don't and he does pay for me) but he expects weekends to be him 'time off' - he expects that I still do all chores with the twins (He does play with them, but not change nappies etc)

I know that, compared to many many people, I have a good life, but I am angry that he gets to have this social life and I get the kids.

AIBU? Or should I just bite myself?

[piscesmoon]

YANBU It should be a partnership and it isn't. You would be just as well off without him. If you love him and want it to work I think you need outside help-suggest Relate.

[ivykaty44]

tbh he is a male chavionist pig, the fact that he doesn't think he shoudl lift a finger and doesn't actually do anything in the home whether it be lifting a mug to make you a coffee or putting his dt's to bed and reading them a story.

He a leech and a limpit both sucking you dry and hanging around doing nothing at all all day - he is cruising

I would be very tempted to change the locks and let him cruise away.

[tallwivglasses]

rachel do post this in 'relationships'

UANBU btw and you've had some excellent advice here but they'll help you to work things out x