I am a little overweight, need to lose about 10lbs, have PCOS et al.
My girl friends all know this and that I'mm trying to lose weight, etc. Most of time it isn't an issue for me and I cope very very well. I don't really think about it. But one friend in particular is a tiny size 4-6 while never exercising. She can actually wear a US size zero. She's been this way as long as I've known her. I can't help thinking she has food issues as everytime we got out she's already eaten a large meal not long before me met up (even though she knew we were meeting) and orders nothing or orders a starter which she never finishes. I don't really care about that, it's her life, but I do feel greedy eating a full meal while she picks.
I was unwell a couple of weeks ago with the most horrendous tummy bug and was sick all weekend. I mentioned it to my friend and she went off on one saying how lucky it wasn't her, she can't afford to get sick as a bout of vomiting would probably kill her, she's got no fat on her body to spare at all and she's soooo tiny and thin. Yes she it in those words. She went on about it for ages. All the while tucking into her starter side salad as I ate my proper meal.
I thought it was a little insensitive. Please tell me if you think I am being unreasonable and over sensitive but I was a little upset. I didn't say anything though.