'It is likely to make you uncreditworthy, so you wouldn't be able to get credit for years and difficult to move,(but you can't afford to move anyway) but at least you would have more money left to live on, pay for heating, pay the rent etc. and still an arrangement to eventually pay debts.'
That's why we don't do it. Once DS goes to school, we'll be able to swap out shifts and both go FT again, barring catastrophe and hopefully pay it all off. But our debts are another big part of our problem.
It started back in 2005, when tax credits claimed we overpayed and cut us off pending appeal.
We went into free fall, living off cards, until DH was able to find a part-time evening/weekend job around my day job.
Seven months later, our appeal was upheld, as there was overwhelming written evidence that the error was theirs.
They paid us £100 compensation.
We were privately-renting in Edinburgh at the time, the third-most expensive city in the UK.
We had racked up about £4000 of debt from which we never truly recovered.
We just have the one rug in the living room, Riven. It was all we could afford.
Sometimes, every now and again, I play Lotto if it gets high, and I always think of you and another friend. How I'd just get rid of your mortgage, if it were me who won.