Its her long term ( like 9 years or somethng) boyfriends birthday.
They have been out for a meal with all the family one night
his family another
and just them.
We were not invited to the family meal as they held it on a weekday and it was too late for DD. They knew i wouldnt be able to get a babysitter. I did ask if maybe they could do it a week later, but they wouldnt.
So, i said ill maybe pop round for lunch with them one day as they were off, bring bread/cheese, cake etc... she said that would be great and she would get back to me.
which she never did. then called me to ask where i was last tuesday.
anyway. I said id pop round sunday afternoon as i wanted to give him his present.
He was working in the garden and just came in for like 10 mins to open his present. Sister had called saturday to ask what time i was coming so they could make sure they were done and could spend some time with us.
There was cake on the table and we didnt get offered any. She could have invited us for tea or something? didnt even get offered a drink. She clearly didnt want us there and just sat and played her ds making no conversation at all. so we left after an hour.
AIBU to feel a bit left out and upset.