Why are there so many fuckers out there?

[poshsinglemum]

And why do I always find them?

I know there are lots of lovely men but I don't seem to have a twat radar.
Men seem to hate me. Am I really unlovable or why aren't there lots of lovely men who want to care about me?

Why is it so hard to find someone to love me and me to love?

OOOOOPs; meant to post in lone parents! Don't attack me!

You are not unloveable, but you need to stand up for yourself. While you're single, decide what is, and what is not, acceptable in a man, and don't deviate next time you date. Come on to MN and ask if you're not sure if a new man is a twat, I'm sure you'll be told in no uncertain terms. :)

I am getting better at it all the time. I am just so disappointed that the pub isn't full of Prince Charmings.
Apparently one of them was supposed to kiss me and I was supposed to turn into a frog. Or was that a princess?

Something like that lol!

Pubs are acceptable hunting grounds when you're young, free and single; you're not. (Well, with DC you're not "free" in the way that you are before you have them.)

May I ask what age (ish) you are?

OK, where will I start looking? I am in every evening with DD, work with mostly women and also attract twats. Tell PSM and I where we're going wrong? I'm 31.

what sueperblybilt says

32. I just had no idea it would be so bloody complicated.

I just thought I'd go to uni, meet a nice chap and get married. Then have kids.

Instead I went to uni, had to drop out due to abusive ex bf whilst at the same time falling in love with love of life, love of life has gf but likes me but I am with abusive ex, having to let love of life go when he chases me due to being messed up by abusive relationship, having lots of short-lived relationships with unsuitable men and lots of one-night stands, concieving dd with a man who is so not the love of my life. And breathe.

I am happy being single. Truly. I would rather be alone than with the wrong man. I just feel like I am missing out on a GOOD relationship with someone who loves me. Noone on Match seems that interseted. And noone on pof has contacted me.

Love of life isn't really the love of my life but he's an amzing guy and sadly engaged. It really isn't that simple. There's a lot of competetion out there.

Hi everyone. I really wish that I'd posted this under lone parents. How can I flip it or copy it over there. Can someone do it for me? Thanks. i'm not feeling strong enough for AIBU. I knwo I am anyways!

Just copy and paste your OP in Lone Parents. I'll leave this thread now. :)

They're not all twats but loads of them are idiots.
You'll find the good guys one day soon.