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64 replies

indigodreams · 20/11/2010 09:57

I told my friend about a fantasy I had that involved a famous actor. She was shocked and said she never thinks like this! I have these all the time...surely I can't be the only hot blooded woman in the world, am I really so weird?

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Asteria · 20/11/2010 22:01

Oh NO! does that mean that I have to either have the ideal husband or the ideal sexual deviant lover victoriascrumptious? Can a girl not have both?

PunctuationPixie · 20/11/2010 22:15

When I'm bored in meetings I often drift into wondering what it would be like to shag the boring grey old suits around the table. It whiles away the hours.

I'm not willing to share the ones I have alone though as I suspect they may seem a bit kinky. I have most of Nancy Friday's books. Well worth a read. For the educational content of course Grin

SuePurblybiltByElves · 20/11/2010 22:17

Once had a sex dream involving Gordon Ramsay. Odd.

OTTMummA · 20/11/2010 22:20

SNAP Psammead!

Maleeka · 20/11/2010 22:49

I do it all the time, usually with people i know Wink, but i agree David Tennant is a usual suspect too Grin

Its nice to just drift off sometimes, when you get a little quiet time and slip into fantasy.......hmm what i am doing on here when i could be in fantasy land! Smile

NetworkGuy · 21/11/2010 01:51

PP - just wondered if you have ever disclosed the ones you deem a bit kinky ?

If so, hope the other person shared theirs too.

If not, then I'm sure we all understand. As I first posted, for many there are problems of "will they cheat" (if they can imagine it, would they be tempted to try in RL)

The simple problem of looking/thinking without touching still being deemed "cheating" in some eyes also makes this a taboo subject, and less likely for one to be open about. Even thinking about it is a sin, in the eyes of some bystanders.

Psammead · 21/11/2010 07:55

OTTMummA So glad to meet another Wolverine lustee! Muscles and aggression are so not my thing, normally.

indigodreams · 21/11/2010 07:58

PP you made me laugh! The boss is always a good one even if you never would in RL.

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Olifin · 21/11/2010 08:14

I love a good sexual daydream. I go though phases of fantasising a lot and then times when I don't do it so much. I occasionally fantasise about famous people but it's usually people I know in RL- whoever I have a crush on at the time :)

Olifin · 21/11/2010 08:17

And my friend and I read one of the Nancy Friday books when we were about 15 and were rather shocked by it.

Magna · 21/11/2010 09:40

You are completely normal otherwise the lovely dream/fantasy I was having last night with a certain celeb makes me weird.

Was really annoyed though DC decided to wake up in the middle of the night and disturb my dream because he was having a nightmare about scooby doo.

mamadiva · 21/11/2010 09:53

I'd be worried if you never had fantasies, it shows imagination you know :o

Saying that I have a had a few disturbing weird saucy dreams involving Diva Fever from the fiXfactor in the last few weeks Blush, needless to say I woke up in more of a cold sweat than anything else LOL

Although whilst we are on Cbeebies folks, I do like Sid :o

Ryoko · 21/11/2010 11:42

I've had a massive crush on Charlie Sheen since 1986 and fantasies about him, I all so fantasies about Dante from the Devil May Cry series of games, I think it's perfectly fine and normal and am very happy to do so.

(Having the occasional sex dream about the Predator tho does cause me some concern Hmm)

NetworkGuy · 21/11/2010 13:27

mamadiva - have never watched X-Factor so just saw one clip... 9 guys and 7 women... sounds like fun...

Even if most / all of the guys would be giving you massage and pampering without anything 'more', and then the girls could cover you in chocolate and lick it off :)

NetworkGuy · 21/11/2010 13:28

Ryoko - was it Species or Predator where the alien was looking for a sex partner and things got pretty hot (and then violent) ?

Mumcentreplus · 21/11/2010 13:56

Species..

cupcakesandbunting · 21/11/2010 14:19

Jason Oranges and Howard Donald threes up, as documented on another thread.

Richard Armitage could come and take over when I had exhausted the Take That chaps

badfairy · 21/11/2010 17:41

Charlie Hunnam......yum Smile

OTTMummA · 21/11/2010 18:14

Yes Psammead, i tend to go for the lean bookish types lol!
X-men was certainely a revelation for my personal pleasure Blush

MittzyBittzyTeenyWeeny · 21/11/2010 18:32

I'd like to go to dinner with Bill Nighy but just for a chat.

DeckTheIceWithDragonsAndHolly · 21/11/2010 18:50

Lean bookish types? Nah my personal favourite fantasies involve toned strong men who look like they could throw you about a bit BlushGrin

MittzyBittzyTeenyWeeny · 21/11/2010 18:53

Don't forget the ability to tie knots Dragons Grin

NetworkGuy · 21/11/2010 20:20

Do you like blindfolds and ice cubes, too, Mittzy :)

DeckTheIceWithDragonsAndHolly · 21/11/2010 20:29

Sounds like a fabulous combo NG.
No Mittz I wont forget Grin

OTTMummA · 21/11/2010 21:59

Well yes dragons, i think i subconsiously do to.
That dream was, well, Blush pardon my language, fucking excellent.

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