to be absolutely stunned by this

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I went out with my brother tonight and this guy came up to us and offered my brother £200 "to spend the night with him". Obviously my brother said no but then he said he'd pay 50 for a blowjob round the corner. I took over at this point and told him to back off and we quickly left and went to a different bar. The guy had clearly had a few drinks but I was totally at this, who just walks up to a random guy and offers him money for sex.

beebuzzer, does your brother often act like a violent thug?

Does this happen to women all the time?

I mean, I have been chatted up but never offered money for sex.

My mum has been propositioned by a woman. She was drunk and not at all threatening so we all just laughed.

I get the whole 'being lonely' thing (and yes, of course, we have all felt like that at one time or another), but in what realm is it okay to approach someone and offer them money for sex because you're lonely?

Mme lindt, it does happen. Has happened to me.
Not nice and I felt quite threatened actually, don't know why
Like this bloke he wouldn't go away either. Very unnerving.

LOL, at least you know his value should you ever have to sell him for sex.
In all seriousness this not normal in any way way shape or form, to go up and offer someone money for sex.

I cannot undertand the bloke risking it, coming up to a man who is sitting at a table with a woman who could be his wife/girlfriend and offering him money for sex.

I was approached by a woman once (not for money) and I had no idea for a very very long time what was going on . I just didn't click that she was lesbian at all. In fact she had to come right out and spell it out to me after trying various appraoches for an hour or so

Wow! I've never been offered money for sex...well not at random...I would actually be very angry if that happened to me..some choice words would have been said

what does "...well not at random..." mean there? lol

I've been offered money for sex on a couple of occasions.

Only one time really bothered me-I was 16 and homeless at the time and clearly vunerable. I shouted "No I will not have sex with you for money, you pervert" really loudly. He was tres embarassed and ran away.

ZZzzen
The woman sat on the arm of Mum's armchair, swizzled Mum's G&T with her little finger while making suggestive comments and Mum did not click. Everyone else noticed though.

when did your mum click ML or did you have to have a quiet word with her?

I have been offered lots of sex but never money.

My BIL was offered money for my sister once when they were travelling (won't say where to be PC about it). I find that even worse than offering money directly to the person you want to have sex wtih tbh

CrankyTwanky "16 and homeless" you poor thing :(

ZZZen
Mum did not twig for ages, think that her friend had a word with her.

Hahaha! (knew someone would ask)..many years ago I was walking with a friend, she lived close to a red-light area a guy pulled up and asked how much?..twas understandable still gave him a mouthful though..

Mrs Bonkers Should have previewed before posting and thought about how that sounded!

I don't know a single woman this has happened to, or a man for that matter. is very strange. maybe the guy was on a dare?

"swizzled Mum's G&T with her little finger..."

Snorbs, yes he does I am afraid! Hardened gangster,you know,skin head type,was in and out of prison for most of his younger years. I guess you would have patted the chap on the head and say `no dearie,not now?!'

I knew I was going to get ratted for that comment on mumsnet !

"It happens to women all the time, doesn't it?"

Does it?

Not that I knew of Orm, must be in certain parts of the country :)

actually I've just remembered once when I was inthe south of France and aged about 21, very innocent, I was strolling about Nice in a sundress and a straw hat when this character in a red sportscar swished up beside me, slammed on the brakes, blocking my way and invited me to lunch.

He was not my type at all and the whole street had that closed down siesta look, shutters down, doors closed, no one about. He was asking me if I liked the town and then how long I was there for and if I wanted to stay. I was wondering how to get out of this when he started saying, he could help me with anything I needed - a flat, a job and so on. I fobbed him off saying how I would love to have lunch with him, where should we meet, where exactly and where would he be seating, I had to post something and I'd be there.

Then boy did I run. I wondered afterwards if he was a pimp? I really don't know.

Travelling through the Sinai once, our coach met up with a bunch of Bedouins. In a sort of pre-arranged 'joke' the coach driver managed to 'sell' one of the tourists to the Bedouins for a crate of coke. She was such an awful individual it seemed a good deal at the time.

Oh how we laughed, but I was young and silly at the time, in my defence.