I will be brief.
Dh is an all round a good egg.
His parent s are v. strict/religious/hate me- mixed faith marriage (get the picture)
He does stand up to them mostly but when it comes to his parents, well he is a sap and I think he is a bit scared of them.
We knew they were coming round earlier this was arranged as it's his mother's birthday.
They came slightly earlier than they had said.
My dh asked me to do him a favour and empty out and hide the ashtray.
I go to the bin (outside front of the house- he usually smokes in the back garden) and am confonted in all my resplendant pregnant glory with the PIL's who look at the soggy fags, them me, and start to rant.
Dh comes outside to see all the fuss and shhes them, tries to change the subject not once admitting the fags are his and it's HIS filthy habit.
have to endure the next hour and a bit looking at their cat's bum mouths, tutting and going on about how disgusting mothers are who push prams with a fag hanging out of their mouths.
I am staggered that I didn't explode, this is not like me, I am quite direct and in no terms a push over.
I have been in tears telling my friend on the phone and she's says that IANBU and that I should make him grovel and go back to thier house with Dh and get him to fess up or alternatively to put chilli oil in his boxers.
P.S. This is not my log in it is my friend's, I am not trying to stir up a fight as a troll