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to think I should have been informed they were testing me for HIV?

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islandbaby · 17/11/2010 20:51

Because I´ve been living abroad for the first 7.5 months of my pregnancy, the local midwife wanted me to see a nurse and to have my bloods tested again a few weeks ago, as all my previous results are in spanish.

When I went to see a different midwife for a routine pregnancy check up a few days ago, she said she'd fetch my blood results and informed me that everything was looking good, iron levels ok etc and that I had tested negative for HIV.

I was, honestly, shocked. I had no idea they were testing me for HIV. I thought you had to give consent, and that you would be given the results with counselling if needed? What if I had been casually informed by the midwife that I had tested positive for HIV?

The midwife who gave me my results seemed concerned that I hadn't known I was being tested, and I wonder if it's something I should bring up with the nurse who took my blood?

opinions?

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Mumcentreplus · 20/11/2010 15:54

I was tested with both my children 2002/03 I was informed of what I would be tested for at the time and a signature was taken for consent.. I'm sure at the time the MW said it was standard procedure..I was then given the results at a later visit..

mousymouse · 20/11/2010 15:59

was tested with both mine 2006 and 2009. as I received blood products before I was quiet happy with that. both times I had to sign the page in the red book where all the blood tests are listed.
it makes me quite angry that insurance companies are allowed to ask such a question. good I signed before I received blood products and got pregnant...

becaroo · 20/11/2010 16:07

It is routine in the UK - you will also have been tested for clamydia and Hep B (sp?) too.

I wasnt told but the midwife gave me a leaflet explaining all the bloods taken at different times during pg and what they were.

Didnt have a problem with it tbh

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