Some thread on here have made me think.
My sister has children but she only contacts me if its about herself or the children. She never asks about me or my life. Its all about her life. I can understand she gets busy and consumed with the kids but I have a life too but she never wants to hear about tht! Not only this but I was all excited about buying her kids presents took a lot of thought and care and she never even said thank you or any response like oh they will love them etc. Its so selfish. She deleted me off facebook 8 mths ago , she moved away a year ago and up until a week ago or so been virtually ignored unless its to tell mum wht presents kids want for their birthdays but guess what she's moving back and now starts calling me hun and added me bk as a friend on fbook and says if I move bk up will I help with kids! Hmmm nice hey. Nt been in touch but then says all this and again only about her and kids! Not how have I been, none of tht. To top it all off she wants to move round corner from me. When she did live up here before all she did was want every1 to run round after her and caused arguments if she didn't get any attention. It was very stressful and I am very apprehensive about this love kids but still feeling stressed Anyone else got a similar issues? Thanks x