to ask what you do for your partner

[AuntiePickleBottom]

the other threads got me thinking.

shudders

Haven't asked for cash yet.......he owes me thousands Bored grin is foc.

I do the shopping (online) and menu plan
Budget
Look after day to day financials
Look after DD
Household organisation
Basic cleaning
Washing
Getting meat out of freezer for dinner (we share cooking)
Random dday to day errands

He:
Looks after garden
Maintenance (he is v practical)
Cars
Bins
Big finances
Half cooking
Hoovering sometimes
Helps with 'big' cleans
IT/technology, like fixing my new phone when I can't
Makes phone calls/complaints I don't want to!

I guess we're pretty gender stereotypical at the mo, though we both work equally hard in the house.

"You give me a lovely home to come home to and a lovely family"

Direct quote. Needs to extend his vocab but otherwise he's really quite... lovely.

I clean some things and I cook either meat with stir in sauce, things in the oven or use the microwave. Mainly I look after our child. I love a clean flat but sometimes I am really lazy so leave it messy when he is at work but he usually will then have a mad clean up on his day off.

He cooks things, cleans, drives me about as I wont drive, gets up with our daughter and does everything really. When we met he was very much more house trained. I am getting better those as I get a bit older. He never moans and he loves me cause I am a complete bedroom slut mwahaha ;)

Um all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the getting dc to and from places, all organising for trips etc, all the accounts and bill payments, most the child minding, sexual favours,
but flat refuse to learn to use the coffee maker and therefore he is reduced to making his own(DH thinks I am a bit dim when it comes to anything electronic but little does he know it is not that I can't learn it more that I don't want it added to my list of to do's) He hasn't cottoned on in 17years that it is a choice!!!

Me

Work three days a week
DD two days a week
Cooking three days a week
Cleaning the house
Washing
Ironing (incl all DHs shirts and trousers)
Do bath and bed with DD every night
Get up with DD four nights a week

DH

Work 3.5 days a week
DD 1.5 days a week
Get up with DD three nights a week
Cooking four days a week
All financial management (in consultation with me of course)
Big shop with DD once a week
All bills/insurance/car/MOT etc
DIY and fixing stuff round the house
Going down on me (poor DH is shortchanged in this department I think)