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to burst out crying straight after sex?

52 replies

Notyetamummy · 13/11/2010 21:22

I don't know what happens to me.

Whenever it's been really good, I just feel so overwhelmed that I cry. Not gentle, actress on telly, one tear down the cheek crying but loud, dramatic sobbing.

It's so embarrassing. My DH just laughs.

Please tell me I'm not the only one that this happens to.

Or if anyone has any ideas how to stop it - please tell.

OP posts:
wukter · 13/11/2010 22:28

Terry Wogan did the Bedtime Story on Cbeebies this evening.

I see he's taken to wearing nice loose comfortable slacks.

Diziet · 13/11/2010 22:33

Grin at wukter
I was trying to think of a female equivalent:
maybe...TessDalysFeet?

Diziet · 13/11/2010 22:33

TessDalysFeet ?

Diziet · 13/11/2010 22:34

Sorry, I just LOVE bolding!!!!

TotorosOcarina · 13/11/2010 22:36

I've done this after really good emotional sex, like intense stuff, not just a quick shag iykwim

was a bit embarrassing but DH could see it was for a good reason!

wukter · 13/11/2010 22:37

Feet are not the same as cocks!

ThatllDoPig · 13/11/2010 22:42

Oh god, I used to do that. I'd forgotten.

The emotion, the passion, the sexual healing and union.

Diziet · 13/11/2010 22:43

Errrr... ClareTealsArmpits ?

BollocksToThis · 13/11/2010 22:52

Oh, good. I'm not a complete freak then. I'll have to relay this to DP later.

DP's the only one who's ever made me cry and the first time it happened he went white as a sheet, he thought I was about to own up to being involved with someone else! It hasn't happened for ages but like others have said it's usually after very intense sex.

He just gets uncontrollable booming laughter Hmm which is just odd, if quite amusing.

BitOfFun · 13/11/2010 22:53

DP cried once. Turned out he'd trapped a nerve.

Diziet · 13/11/2010 22:54

I've had the giggles before as well as the blubfest! I think crying or laughing is generally a good reaction... ok, mostly !

BelleDameSansMerci · 13/11/2010 23:14

I do tend to get the giggles now, although before rather than during. It's "off-putting" apparently but I've not noticed any deterioration in the service Smile

Diziet · 13/11/2010 23:31

Grin at BelleDameSansMerci !

wukter · 13/11/2010 23:36

sorry no Belle, doesn't have the same gravitas.

Diziet · 13/11/2010 23:40

'when we made love, you used to do fannyfarts'
Grin sorry, v childish!

chipmonkey · 14/11/2010 00:44

Am going to tell dh he is doing something wrong.

BollocksToThis · 14/11/2010 18:46

I told DP about this thread and he was terribly upset that he's not the only man who can move a woman to tears with his spectacular sexual skills Grin

BelleDameSansMerci · 14/11/2010 19:04

LOL Bollocks! Can he also move you to giggles?

BertieBotts · 14/11/2010 19:12

I've had this happen twice. The first time was not because it was good so I won't go there :) But the second time was just a kind of uncontrollable aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaohhhhhhhmygodimcrying kind of response/release/etc type thing.

Was with my last sexual partner (not current bf). Unfortunately as we were friends before we started dating new bf already knows about this and is most put out that he hasn't achieved it yet Blush I think he would probably laugh if I did though - but in an "Oh my god I can't believe I did it" kind of way Wink Can't remember what the guy did before. He was a bit shocked Grin

BertieBotts · 14/11/2010 19:14

Sorry and meant to say actually I wonder whether it was emotional rather than being due to the sex being particularly amazing - though it was very good Grin - I guess I was quite emotional at the time.

IslaValargeone · 14/11/2010 19:18

I'm with Terrywoganscock, so to speak.

2rebecca · 14/11/2010 20:40

If my bloke started crying after sex I'd be relly worried. I don't see any reason why it's OK just because you are a woman.

BollocksToThis · 14/11/2010 21:04

Nope Belle, it's him that does the laughing! And 2rebecca, it's not intentional, or controllable.

ThatVikRinA22 · 14/11/2010 21:09

pmsl at bof....

i usually cry before sex Grin

MouseCostume · 14/11/2010 21:24

A ha, this happens to me too when it's amazing, only sometimes (I cry, not it's amazing)Blush

Did you see Tel on Buzzcocks this week? Twas vay funny.