Just when I think things can't get any more complicated. 
My Mum found out last night that her ex partner of ten years has recently been diagnosed with HIV. She doesn't know how long he's had it at the moment, (although apparently they can give a rough idea) and they have no idea how he could have got it.
She is booked in for a test on Monday. Am I wrong in thinking if she has been with this man for tens year and he is exhibiting symptoms which caused the hospital to test for HIV, she in very unlikely not to have it?
My Mum is very angry and upset and in pieces, as are myself and my sister really.