Dd is 8. She has muscle problems, but is very keen on sport and always wants to join in. This is becoming difficult as she gets older because it is becoming more obvious how much she struggles to keep up. Team sports are a problem, because the other kids are starting to take the mickey.
She used to do a dance class, but it closed down. I found her a cheerleading class. I thought it would be pretty much dancing, but it turned out to be much more gymnastics and lifting than I expected.
Despite this, she has done fantastically, and loves it. It costs £3 per session plus money for costumes etc. This is just about manageable. The teacher has been pretty good at helping her with stuff, and from the outset has said that she is all inclusive and would include her in the squad for shows despite being behind the other girls. Dd is over-the-moon that she's good enough at something to perform.
I have now been told that the entry fee per child is £25 for one competition. There are about 12 girls in the squad, surely it can't cost £300 to enter one competition? Ds is sporty and enters football tournaments, running events, never more than £3.
I feel awful because dd has worked so hard to improve, but there's no way I can justify £25 in the family budget for one day.