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Surely this can't be right? WTF am I supposed to do?!

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oneofthosedays · 08/11/2010 16:11

Basically the jist of it is that we're moving to a different area 3/4 miles away next week. DD is currently in Y2 at school and would be moving up to juniors sept 2011 and DS will be starting reception sept 2011. DD obviously is in school in the old area and we are wanting DS to start school in the new area next year and also move DD to new area school. New area school doesn't have infants/junior, it's all one.

I've just rang the admissions people for the borough (both schools in same borough) and have basically been told that there's currently no places in new school Y2 (which would become Y3 next sept) and if there still weren't any places for DD in Y3 for next sept later in the school year we would have to lodge an appeal if DS gets into new school. But this would mean she would have to start juniors at old school whilst appeal goes through so instead of changing school once she would have to start juniors and change to new if we win the appeal. If we lose the appeal DD could be at juniors 20mins drive away from DS at new school and how am I supposed to manage pick ups? I would have no help it would mean picking one or the other up really late which I don't think would be acceptable to school. Drops offs however may be manageable.

The only other option is to start DS at old school infants and DD just moves up to juniors. But then they are both still 20mins drive away from home when the new school would be 10mins walk. I know it sounds daft but we're really going to struggle on petrol costs if this is the case.

It's like we're damned if we do, damned if we don't. They also won't hold any places either! What does everyone else do? I'm getting a bit worked up about it and need some perspective!

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nymphadora · 08/11/2010 16:14

Year 3 can be larger than year 2 so may be possible to squeeze another one in when they move up but not if you moved before the end of the school year

Lougle · 08/11/2010 16:16

Surely for your old area, you would have to reapply for a junior school place because your DD has to leave infants? Then you just put a school close to your new address, and if they turn that down, they have to provide transport to any school they allocate which is >2 miles away.

oneofthosedays · 08/11/2010 17:33

Yes, got the forms today to apply for junior schools. So we could put DD's name down for a different school/any school other than the Junior school which feeds from the infant - even if it doesn't have separate infant and junior schools? I'm not really sure how it works!

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GiddyPickle · 08/11/2010 17:42

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oneofthosedays · 08/11/2010 17:45

Moving next week so after we've moved in we'll fill out the applications and get them in from the new address.

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gapbear · 08/11/2010 17:45

Bring back the days when you used to just go to your local school and that was it...

I think it varies LA to LA, oneofthosedays. In Cambs we had the option of choosing 3 schools, which we ranked in order of preference. Put your preferred junior school on top. then the next closest, if that's what you want. You could ring round your (new) local schools an find out how many children they have in Year 2/3 and see if that helps to inform your decision.

mumbar · 08/11/2010 17:46

You can't apply to a primary school for a junior school place.

In my LEA now you can put your name down at the school and they can contact you direct when a place comes up without going through the education board. So if they know someone is leaving in July and leaving a place for september they can let you know when the parents of that pupils have filled out the leaving forms.

Unfortunatly that is leaving it to chance. Would DD junior school be 3 miles away from the new house? If so she may get school transport provided if they can't offer a place in the nearest school.

Tortington · 08/11/2010 17:49

i had to go to appeal many years ago becuase i was expected to get three kids to two different schools.

i won.

i know someone who has two kids at two different schools. she has refused to buy uniform for the youngest - the school has given her a jumper. and she is invariably late getting one of them to school

ForMashGetSmash · 08/11/2010 17:50

I know a number of parents in similar situations...they tend to put the older child in an after school club to allow enough time for pick-ups.

oneofthosedays · 08/11/2010 18:05

It's being able to afford after school club or CM though! I just don't know what to do for the best, it just seems such a shit system set up for the LA's interest/ease and not parents.

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