I suspect I should really just learn to wind my neck in. Caught bus today (20 mins late and it was raining) with my 2 dc's youngest in a sling because I knew I was getting a bus around school kick out time and they seem to always put a non-accessable bus (with steps to get on) so you can't take on a pushchair between 3 and 4, I imagine because so busy with all school kids. Another mum had 2 young children one in a buggy, she had to fold buggy and was no room to stow it as area full of bags, she stood and had her children sit on the bottom step of stairs going upstairs - which I thought not so nice on wet day and I thought really teenagers sitting on front row should offer seats to her and move back (there were seats available for them) no one moved, so I asked a couple of the kids on the seats in front to move back - mum decided not to take opportuntity to sit down and sulky teenagers who had given me a 'oh fgs look' on the way back moved forward again. I should have just kept shtum shouldn't I?
Later when bus was full a couple of pensioners (late 60s) got on and had to stand as none of the children moved. I also wanted to tell the girl sitting across from me with one seat for herself and one for her wet brolly and wet and muddy shoes to sort herself out but didn't.
And the bus was 20mins late and I really really need to learn to drive.