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To be apocalyptically fucked off with solicitors?!

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emptyshell · 05/11/2010 14:06

House buying - grrr.

We've been waiting a fortnight now for the final bit of paperwork to be sent so we can exchange contracts. It's a one-line statement we need from the vendor's solicitors confirming the revised sale price (it got dropped slightly over some issues the survey threw up). Apparently it's been "in the post" for most of this week - still hasn't materialized, and the estate agent is dodging calls, they're just generally being incompetent, and ours can get no sense out of them.

They've bloody known for the last 3 months that we NEED to be exchanging+completing in November and the place we're buying is standing empty so there's no chain ballsing things up. They even know exactly WHY we need the November timescale (technically we can drop slightly into December but if we tell them that they'll take the piddle even more) - the in-laws are helping with the DIY/decor/move stuff (because my husband is a disaster that I've banned from using a drill - this being the man who ended up in A+E loading the washing machine) and FIL goes away for work in December. Basically we've had week after week of "oh we should be at contracts stage next week" again and again since the beginning of September and my patience is beginning to wear thin.

Hubby's trying to prod things along, I sweethearted the estate agent into attempting to prod it along (this place has been on the market at least 2 years and they want their fees) but these vendor's solicitors are just taking the piss completely. Meanwhile we're stuck with boxes stockpiled everywhere, life on hold (normally by now I've started buying things like foody bits for Xmas to spread the cost and I've got the Xmas shopping done - can't do that if I don't know where we'll be living then) and I'm just really really fucked off with the entire legal profession right now.

Do solictors ask around the office if anyone wants a coffee by snail mail and wait for a postal response before sticking the kettle on FFS?!

Can't pack anymore since we're down to essentials now (we're only moving three doors down out of rented so there's no massive need for a lag between exchange/completion etc for removal vans) - if our helpers are out of action because they've pratted around for so long I will be incredibly peed off since hubby promised me faithfully after we nearly killed ourselves moving everything into this house on our own that he'd never put me in that position again.

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Towatessa · 05/11/2010 14:08

YADNBU

ragged · 05/11/2010 14:24

I'd personally knock on the soliciter's office doors and ask about it every single day starting this afternoon. What are they going to do to you now that is worse than where you are heading if they don't shift their arses into gear?

thekidsmom · 05/11/2010 14:25

What are your solicitors doing about it? You dont mention them.... perhaps there's more to the delay than you have been told?

thumbwheel · 05/11/2010 14:27

What ragged said. Go round there and ask for a new copy of the piece of paper to be given into your hand so you can deliver it personally to your own solicitor, rather than trusting it to Royal Mail, who may or may not have lost the last one.

YANBU at all.

emptyshell · 05/11/2010 14:31

Hubby's been keeping me well away from the solicitors as I think he fears I'll commit murder with a stapler and elastic bands or something. Sadly the vendor's solicitors are in Norwich or somewhere massively southern from here so I can't go round and play the tearful woman in person - or I would do.

Been trying to leave it to hubby to sort - but he's very placid and calm about things, if there's no joy next week - I'm going to try the tearful woman can you please help me because I'm getting very stressed and anxious here approach with a few avenues because this is getting ridiculous now.

Wishing we'd never started this to be honest now - even though finding a new rental when you've got a cat is nigh on impossible, and our current landlord doesn't do repairs at all - this is just an ongoing nightmare.

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Zondra · 05/11/2010 14:31

Nightmare!

Do what Ragged said for definite!

Yadnbu! Hope it's sorted soon!

Lizcat · 05/11/2010 14:36

Threaten to walk away from the deal that is what I did in a virtually identical situation. Showing that you could move on to another property focuses their minds.

Zondra · 05/11/2010 14:36

Aww, just read about vendor's solicitors.
What a pest!

I might still be tempted to go to the office ,though & tell them I have travelled XX miles to get here today & I am not leaving until this is dealt with.

emptyshell · 05/11/2010 14:41

Glad I'm not being unreasonable - hubby seems to think I am somewhat. I have considered starting to make withdrawing from the sale type noises to be honest - but it's a bit emotionally blackmaily and they know unfortunately that it's a house and street we really want to stay in.

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scurryfunge · 05/11/2010 14:44

Harass the vendor's solicitor by phone until they get fed up with you.

fedupwithdeployment · 05/11/2010 14:47

Ring up and make a pest of yourself. Speak to the solicitor, and if not available, his/ her partner / supervisor.

Also contact the vendors and threaten to walk way and say that if the deal falls through, they can blame their solicitors.

good luck.

thekidsmom · 05/11/2010 14:54

Emptyshell - are you doing the conveyancing yourself? Do you not have your own solicitors? If so they should be chewing out the vendor's solicitors on your behalf.... if that's not happening, then its YOUR solicitors you want to be beating on the door of .....

emptyshell · 05/11/2010 14:59

Oh hubby's now ringing our solicitors daily to chivvy them along, the estate agent's pushing the vendor's solicitors - but it's their solicitors causing the delays from what I gather - this purchase price confirmation is the final piece in the jigsaw.

Our solicitors aren't great - and do have a tendency to leave stuff for weeks on end without chasing the paper trail up though.

So frustrating to have your life on hold waiting for a one line letter to make its way through the system. I'm not thinking we'll be even anywhere near getting in in November now to be honest (we don't need a massive break between exchange and completion as things stand).

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thekidsmom · 05/11/2010 15:03

I feel for you. You must want to scream. But It hink your solicitors should be taking the anxiety off your shoulders and getting the other side to pull their finger out.

emptyshell · 05/11/2010 15:39

Oh now it turns out that the promised letter - hasn't actually been even posted yet because the vendor's solicitor is on holiday!

My rage timer has been reached.

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monnymaya · 07/03/2013 09:42

can anyone recommend a fast reliable and reasonable solicitor for home buying please

bangwhizz · 07/03/2013 09:53

Did you have to resurrect a 2.5 yo thread to ask that?

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