I am probably being unreasonable. I've got 2 children. Daughter is 3 and son is 1. I work every friday night. Long story but just a mcjob as gave up work when daughter was born. Am retraining at college two nights a week to try to improve our financial situation and also get me some time as myself. I am not really geared up to being a SAHM. I would love to be someone happy with that role and being skint and living and breathing the kids..that to me is a good mother but I am not that. I am sick of having no money and having discussions at toddler groups over who has done the most ironing. Anyway there is a ten minute overlap between my DH getting in from work and me leaving and he suggested this morning we have fireworks!!! I kind of went off my rocker at him. The kids are still so young. Our lawn is as big as a postage stamp and I'm stressed out of my bonce with the kids and college and he wants to throw fireworks into the mix???? we can't do it tomorrow as I'm working all day and back at 8.30 when kids will be in bed. For one thing I feel for not being here but we need the money. I try my best with the kids but they really try my patience with the constant whinging and wanting attention. I do give them as much as I can but I still need to make the dinner and do the housework, ironing,....oh I need to stop moaning but I never realised how hard this would be.