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To have been 32 and cycling through poppy fields in France before the penny fucking dropped!

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NeverGhoul · 03/11/2010 20:38

There I am pedalling along this summer through poppy fields in northern France when I had a sort of moment of clarity re: the whole wearing a poppy thing. I never got the link til then. Only took 32 years.

AIBU or just a bit dim and unquestioning?

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faileddoctor · 03/11/2010 21:09

OK, what is the significance of the yellow daffodil?

earwicga · 03/11/2010 21:11

YANBU. I was an adult when the penny dropped that the Romans came from Italy.

NeverGhoul · 03/11/2010 21:11

i have no idea about yellow daffodils. educate me.

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faileddoctor · 03/11/2010 21:13

Don't know about the daffodil, but the poppy is apparently so logical, so presuming daffodil would be as well.....

NeverGhoul · 03/11/2010 21:14

brilliant earwicga. i don't feel so bad now.

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Notquitegrownup · 03/11/2010 21:16

Yellow daffodils are sold by the hospice movement aren't they to raise funds? No link to poppies that I know of

faileddoctor · 03/11/2010 21:18

But WHY yellow daffodils

MoralDefective · 03/11/2010 21:20

The French(i believe) use the Bluet,the blue cornflower for Remembrance day.

NeverGhoul · 03/11/2010 21:24

our van nearly left the road while the driver and i were being overawed by the cornflower fields.
both very impressive.

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earwicga · 03/11/2010 21:26

You're welcome NeverGhoul. I couldn't believe I had never linked the two!

LelloLorry · 03/11/2010 21:31

Thank you NG, BB :)

complexnumber · 03/11/2010 21:33

I think it's great to read discussions about the significance of poppies and Rememberance Day.

After all, it's all about "Lest we forget".

swanriver · 03/11/2010 21:33

well, just to put things in perspective I never realised there were Dinosaurs in England until I went to the Jurassic coast. I thought dinosaurs were foreign.
I always knew about poppies though, because of the poem.

pinkjello · 03/11/2010 21:36

Aren't polar bears from the North pole?

NeverGhoul · 03/11/2010 21:38

er yes they are pinkjello, but we're overlooking it as this is a 'be kind to dim people' thread.

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artyjools · 03/11/2010 21:39

Have you not seen the film "Oh what a lovely war"?. Fabulous biting satire. Blackadder stole its final scene from this film in my opinion. Both made me cry though.

nannynobnobs · 03/11/2010 21:40

It took me ages to realise that the ancient Romans came from Italy too Earwig :o they are usually portrayed as more Ray Winstone than Ray Romano.

Timeforanap · 03/11/2010 21:44

I was in 2nd yr uni when disbelieving DH explained to me that the story of Icarus flying too close to the Sun was not actually true. Blush

BeenBeta · 03/11/2010 21:45

complexnumber - I agree. We should.

I went to a boys boarding at age 11 and there was a library specially built a memorial to the former pupils boys who died in WW1.

The library was lined from floor to ceiling with hundreds of small wooden panels. Each bearing the name of a former pupil and usually with the rank of Lieutenant. Literally, nearly every single boy who left the school for 4 years was killed as they mainly became the young officers who led the men over the top. It had a great effect on me. I always think of that library on Rememberance Day.

MoralDefective · 03/11/2010 21:47

Timeforanap...what were you doing at university?

NeverGhoul · 03/11/2010 21:48

icarus, that's another good one.
you do know thor doesn't actually wave his hammer to cause thunder?

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Suncottage · 03/11/2010 22:01

My great grandfather was listed as a deserter during WWI and my great grandmother was spat at in the street for years.

His body was finally found in NoMansLand in 1921 in the German trenches. He was identified by his dog tags. This was in on the France/Belgium border. He had infiltrated the German trenchs and shot in the head.

He has a plaque in Westminster Abbey named for him.

He wrote a poem

My wife, my life

My love, my all

I promised you a house

I promised you children

I promised you a dog and roses up the wall

I promised you the kissing tree

Where we would kiss for ever all

I promised you I would come back

I cannot promise that at all.

He never came back. But left my grandmother

MoralDefective · 03/11/2010 22:05

That is so sad,not just the poem but your poor Great Grandmother.

SkeletonFlowers · 03/11/2010 22:17

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Suncottage · 03/11/2010 22:27

moraldecftive

Makes me cry - she lost her mother in the Great Flu Epidemic of 1917 then took care of her younger siblings at the age of eight.

Both of her brothers died in WW2 along with my uncles on my fathers side. My great Uncle was a prisoner of war in Malaysia and his other brother was in the Norwegian Resistance. He married a Norwegian girl. He was shot dead in a small village in the north of Tromso.

Because of war my entire family consists of three people. My mother, my father and my brother. My mother's first fiance died in Korea in the 1950's.

I wear a poppy because my family have given too much.

I cannot suppport war in any shape or form.

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