My DD is at a nursery 3 days a week, and spends the rest of the time with me (1 day in the week) DH (1 day in the week) and both/either at weekends.
The nursery is of course compiling their required Formal Assessment, which will go on with her to school when she goes (she's only 2 now, so not for a while).
AIBU to really not care about it?
If she wasn't in nursery, she wouldn't have been formally assessed, and would start school without it.
We have been given "vouchers" on which to write things she does at home which show her development (like talking, walking, making a cup of tea
). I am sure it is because they have noticed things she has been doing at nursery and can't talk to us about them because they don't know if we know she can do them, IYSWIM. Like, for example, I know she walked for the first time at home, and I told them that, and they said they hadn't seen her walk at nursery before, but if they had, they weren't allowed to tell us.
I'm not sure she will stay at nursery if DC2 comes along (TTC at the moment) so what happens to the formal assessment then? Who gets it, and does it just stop or am I expected to fill it in?