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wasting food-made my blood boil in restaurant today,

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mrsmillsfanclub · 27/10/2010 17:59

Im not the sort of parent that forces their child to eat everything on their plate whether they want it or not, but today while treating my dd to a half term lunch at a local restaurant I had a family of mum and two kids at the table next to me.
They were aged about 8 and 10yrs and not the most well behaved of children (getting up and prodding each other, irritating each other, etc) but that didn't faze me much. What did infuriate me was the fact that nice waiter brought pasta for one of the kids, chicken bites and fries for the other and soup for the mum. The boy instantly dismissed the pasta after one bite ('I hate tomatoes') Mum persuaded waiter he had brought the wrong type of pasta than they had ordered, they hadn't but it duly changed without a fuss and another pasta dish was brought, the boy said this time it was too cold, (I could see steam coming off it!). Mum was totally subservant, 'Oh darling, we shan't come here again the service is awful'. The daughter meanwhile left her meal practically untouched too, and mum looked as though she didn't eat much of hers.
Having asked for the bill, she then realised that they got free ice-creams as part of a meal deal and urged kids to have them. Again they had a mouthful and left the lot. When they left the table looked like a war zone, and it just made me mad. Why insist on taking kids to a place where they obviously hate everything on the menu? Give em a bowl of cornflakes at home. Thanks feel better now thats off my chest!!

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saffy85 · 27/10/2010 18:05

YANBU can't stand that kind of waste either. My rule for DD and infact all children who come to my house is, if "you're not hungry for tea" you're not hungry for pudding either. End of. Trying something and not liking it is a seperate issue though.

Basically this mum is a tool. Do you think the waiter may have possibly gobbed in the ice cream? That's the only reason I can think of for a child to not aleast eat the ice cream Grin

FeedjoToTheMummies · 27/10/2010 18:06

So, if your children are fussy eaters you must be a "tool"? Hmm

anonymosity · 27/10/2010 18:07

I wouldn't care. And I'd have better things to think about and do during a lunch with my own children, tbh.

Chil1234 · 27/10/2010 18:07

Console yourself with the thought that she paid plenty of money for it all and that the second plate of 'too cold' pasta was probably garnished with a little sputum :)

saffy85 · 27/10/2010 18:14

No that isn't what I said [hhmm]. I meant the mum is a tool for treating staff that way and indulging her kids bratty behaviour. Some people have no shame. I'd have been dead embarrassed if mine acted that way in public.

mrsmillsfanclub · 27/10/2010 18:19

Yes. My thought was it was her money, her problem. I just thought it was so wasteful in terms of ordering for the sake of it. By the way anonymosity I didn't sit and study them during my lunch, the 8yr old continually pushing past me to go and prod her brother just drew my attention to them. I knew I should have chosen the table next to a group of darby and jones (pissed but otherwise civilised).

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anonymosity · 27/10/2010 18:26

It sounds like you did sit and study them, actually. Bit boring if you ask me.

withorwithoutyou · 27/10/2010 18:26

If DD does that then my DH's eyes light up as he knows he gets to eat her dinner too Grin

BelligerentGhoul · 27/10/2010 18:29

DD1 and I were in Wagamamas a few days ago and a couple of teenage girls were there. They each had a salad and left virtually all of it. It seems such a waste and it's not like Wagamamas is cheap, either. It always makes me wonder why people bother.

Or maybe I am just greedy. :)

If my children hadn't eaten their lunch, there's no way they would have got icecream.

juuule · 27/10/2010 18:32

Belligerent - they didn't eat their ice-cream either.

Sounds like they weren't at all hungry.

SecretNutellaFix · 27/10/2010 18:32

I would be quite willing to bet that the kids weren't actually hungry, rather than just being fussy. If they had had a snack when out shopping/ doing other stuff, they probably wouldn't be hungry for a proper meal.

VivaLeBeaver · 27/10/2010 18:34

Well maybe she didn't know the kids wouldn't like the food until the food arrived. My DD can be fussy, she loves pasta in tomato sauce but if it comes and its the wrong sort of sauce. Its as irritating for me as it is for bystanders.

mrsmillsfanclub · 27/10/2010 18:36

I don't blame the kids at all. I agree they probably weren't hungry. Just think the mum was a bit of a tw*t.

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BelligerentGhoul · 27/10/2010 18:37

I know they didn't eat it - but they wouldn't have had the chance to eat or refuse it if I was their mother! :)

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