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To complain to our bus service?

7 replies

WingDad · 18/10/2010 23:37

I got a call from DS1(12) at about 1600 on my mobile. I was a little reluctant to answer because I was in work and was busy, however emergencies and all that made me pick up. He told me he was stood at the bus stop in the pouring rain and had been told he couldn't get on the bus that arrived 'because she said I looked like a yob'

I was like Hmm and had to sneak out of work (camouflage and concealment Grin) to go and get him. When I arrived he was soaked through, including his bag with all of his school books in. He had to strip off his clothes when he got in because he looked like he was about to freeze up, even his boxers were soaked! Anywho, I questioned him further and apparently this is what had happened:

DS is stood at the bus stop for about 15 minutes and had forgotten his waterproof jacket so was pretty damp. Bus pulls up and the driver opens the door, DS climbs on and asks for ticket etc. etc. but is met by "I'm not letting you on when you're dressed like that" He was wearing a hoodie underneath his school blazer and had the hood up when the bus approached, but pulled it down when he got on. DS, understandably, was a bit shocked and replied with "But it's raining" and apparently the driver then shouted at him repeatedly so DS decided to just get off to avoid a confrontation (he's a little timid). He then called me and I came and picked him up.

Now I appreciate that sometimes kids fabricate and twist stories to make themselves sound like the victim so I was a little sceptical at first since it's quite an allegation to make. However, on further interrogation I have to say I agree with this version of events, since I can tell when he's lying (he blinks a lot and breaks eye contact). Unfortunately the bus drivers around here don't have a stirling reputation for politeness. I've told him about the potential consequences if I complained, and he just looked me in the eye and said, "Dad, I swear that's what happened, why would I lie to you about something like this?" and is generally pretty shaken by it.

I was just wondering if any of you would advise against complaining to the bus company about this driver. We don't have the driver details but we do have the route and the time it happened. I have to say, my gut instinct is saying my DS is right and that's how things did happen and I trust him. Therefore, I'm erring towards complaining.

Just wondering if anyone had any conflicting issues they wanted to be made aware.

Cheers :)

P.S. DS is warm and dry now, but his uniform isn't Angry And the majority of his text and exercise books are now damp/ruined AngryAngry

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WingDad · 18/10/2010 23:44

Yeah I agree it's a bit of a no-brainer, this thread is a bit of a half-rant just to help me sort it all out in my head! :P

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Skyrg · 19/10/2010 00:33

Complain and send them a bill for the damage. Also your son should receive an apology.
If they don't react, threaten to go to the papers (there was some odd story years ago about a hamster not being allowed on a bus, went to papers and bus service was very embarrassed and gave the hamster a free bus pass, lol).

Your son behaved very well too.

BootyMum · 19/10/2010 11:02

Terrible! I would definitely complain about this. Unfortunately I have also witnessed rude behaviour from bus drivers to passengers. I once complained when I witnessed a driver tell a passenger to "Fuck off". Was completely uncalled for as far as I could see but even if the passenger was rude the driver is still a representative of their company and should have a more appropriate and professional way of dealing with the situation.
Sounds like the driver had a thing against teenage boys and their supposed behaviour and he took it out on your son. Way out of line. The bus company needs to know about this so that they can deal with their employee and his unprofessional attitude.

MrsC2010 · 19/10/2010 11:06

Definitely complain, poor boy.

WingDad · 20/10/2010 01:55

Cheers for all of your replies, I've written in to the bus service, explaining the situation and giving details and the effects these had on DS1 (was almost put in detention today until I phoned in explaining the situation and has apparently been questioned a lot on the damaged school books).

To be honest it sounds like an isolated incident, he's continued using the buses and has had no problems.

I'll anticipate their reply then pursue billing them for damages to school property (though I suspect that won't be easy...we'll see though Grin)

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