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To find Matt Rudd's description of MNers a bit rude?

39 replies

Fluteyboots · 17/10/2010 15:31

Sunday Times Culture section today, page 7. He does say "I love Mumsnet". But then goes on to describe it as "lots of enthusiastic yet slightly mad, hormonal women rabbiting on about things they'll forget five minutes later" .

Whilst parts of this, on occasion, could be true, I did find it fairly patronising, and maybe a bit sexist, as if this were the sum total any of us had to contribute. Hmm

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 17/10/2010 15:32

i would say, on balance, his description is mostly accurate.

Grin
edam · 17/10/2010 15:34

cheeky fecker. Like every conversation he has is incredibly cerebral.

"hormonal" is a very sexist term in this context. FWIW levels of hormones in men fluctuate throughout the day, yet no-one ever accuses THEM of being hormonal.

DoraBelvedon · 17/10/2010 15:35

He must have read my best and most important posts this week

BeerTrixSixSixPotter · 17/10/2010 15:36

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PavlovtheWitchesCat · 17/10/2010 15:58

edam i often tell my DH he is hormonal! He suffers severely from Pre Moon Fever too Grin honestly, it is just the same!

BeenBeta · 17/10/2010 16:09

I note that Mr Rudd wrote a mans guide to MN in February 2010.

You know what they say. Those that can do, those that can't just write about it. Wink

maryz · 17/10/2010 16:10

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edam · 17/10/2010 16:16

Pavlov Grin

3thumbedwitch · 17/10/2010 16:16

bit rude but hey - he's a male journo - he needs to find an angle.

sethstarkaddersmummyreturns · 17/10/2010 16:24

I object to 'hormonal'.
He is also wrong, so wrong, about us forgetting things 5 minutes later.
Us MNers never forget.
That is the point.
We never forget and we never forgive.

otherwise he is right though, we are all barking.
I always find it vaguely surprising when I go to a meet-up and everyone appears lovely & normal.

Fluteyboots · 17/10/2010 16:25

I think it's the word Rabbiting that really rankles. As a child I was frequently told to "stop rabbiting on" in response to my constant chattering natural friendliness.

Possibly still traumatized...

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sharbie · 17/10/2010 16:27

I don't think its like that at all

ivykaty44 · 17/10/2010 16:29

well he will be forgotten in a few minutes then...

PaisleyPumpkin · 17/10/2010 16:32

Oh I remember that man's guide to MN... "One thing I can conclude is that men should be careful. Behind every woman are, potentially, a thousand other women. And quite a lot of them have their arms crossed angrily."
Grin

BalloonSlayer · 17/10/2010 18:19

I wasn't offended. However, we are seeing more and more of this.

Should any of the readers of the Sunday Times wish to know Mumsnetters' views on something, they can look at Mumsnet for themselves.

Therefore I do think that someone who is paid to write a review of a TV programme and fills the last half column with quotes from a website that cost him all of two clicks, must be a pretty shit writer.

Matt, I just know you are reading, you are quite welcome to use this particular quote of mine, for nothing, in your paid work.

Grin
DeadBodyofKaraStarbuckThrace · 17/10/2010 18:20

Well he has got me spot on Grin7

Don't take it seriously!

BarringtonWomble · 17/10/2010 18:30

Yanbu! How infuriating to think that we should be described as.... sorry I seem to have forgotton why I came into this threadBlush I think I came up to close the window..Confused

Trop · 17/10/2010 18:34

Who is he?

MumBarTheDoorZombiesAreComing · 17/10/2010 18:41

Grin not far wrong except the forgetting about it 5 minutes later - MN would be a lot quieter if we could just forget Wink

sethstarkaddersmummyreturns · 17/10/2010 18:45

he doesn't know about the spreadsheets

PavlovtheWitchesCat · 17/10/2010 19:16

haha! I had forgotten all about posting on this!

scottishmummy · 17/10/2010 19:20

not sexist,is v funnny and pretty accurate

SarahStratton · 17/10/2010 19:28

"... Behind every woman are, potentially, a thousand other women. And quite a lot of them have their arms crossed angrily."

Now that I do like Grin

He forgot the rolling pins though.

sethstarkaddersmummyreturns · 17/10/2010 19:37

and the (Cath Kidston) flowery pinnies

SarahStratton · 17/10/2010 19:40

I have a Cath Kidston tent Grin

and tea towels, pinnies, ironing board cover (unused) etc Blush