Lots of background to this but in a nutshell split when dd was 1 she is now 11. I have worked full time for the total period.xdh lives 3hrs away and sees her 3 times a year him and his wife say it is the only time they can manage.He pays no maintainence as he is a director of his company and declares an income of nil so the csa say that is what they go on.They live in a nice house and go on weekends away all the time.This is something I don't let get to me anymore but dd recently found out that not only have they just been to greece for 2 weeks but they wrer also camping for a long weekend an hour away from here and didn't say a word. She now quite rightly is upset and when I sent a message to them was told in no uncertain terms that it was nothing to do with me how they spent their time off.He also told dd off for being quiet when speaking to her "mum" as they insist she is called. Am fighting the urge to send a ranty text.