to be crying my eyes out?

[Notyetamummy]

and posting far too personal stuff on mn.

My goodness. If only everything on mumsnet was so easily solved!

hurrah! A success! Well done, notyetadaddy.

Good luck to the both of you! :)

NotYETaMummy & NotYETaDaddy - I hope you are far too busy changing that, to be reading this of a Saturday night!!!

I'm pleased you talked and I'm pleased you are, at the very least, going to make a full & informed decision together.

Best of luck :) x

Ah, good luck Notyetamummy, all the best.

all the best to both of you x

Ah, that is brilliant. I was feeling quite glum, but this thread has really sorted that out.

Good decision, both of you, well done.

Now go away and get busy!

Goodness, that was amazingly uplifting and lovely for MN, especially AIBU!!

Good luck guys

This thread has just brought a bit of a tear to my eye, very good luck

Well done notyetamummy for talking, and notyetadaddy for listening! Talking and listening are amongst the most important skills of pre and post parenthood so you are clearly well equipped to take on it's challenges! Good luck to you both esp. notyetamummy wishing you very good health and happiness.

Ah, this thread is so lovely and made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside! Much better than x factor (although it does look like its going to be good this year!)

I am so excited for you both! Woo!

Fantastic, I don't know if you have endometriosis or some other problem which gets worse over the years, but I totally support the decision to go for it. If there is any chance that you might not be able to have children in the future, go for it. I also had children during my PhD, it's not ideal, but there never is an ideal time and if you have health problems, you just have to go for it when you are younger and before the health window closes. Good luck.

Lets put another spin on this shall we?

1.You're happily married.
2.You're going to be a doctor, which is one the most highly skilled and well paid jobs on the face of the earth.
3.You're broody
4.Now the time may be right for you to have a baby as it will assist your health and you may not get another chance.

Do you have any idea how many people there are who don't have a fraction of the good things that you have in your life? You should be happy :)

Just do it. Things will take care of themselves. In a few years time you'll have a lovely child and you'll be a very successful doctor and wonder what all this was about.