A while ago my dd and I was asked to be bridesmaid which was lovely but I only knew the bride for 4 months,I was flattered but accepted untill the bride started making demands.
She said my dd could come to the wedding but had to go after the wedding itself and the photos ,the demands went on and on and in the end I stepped downas did my dd.
The wedding came and went and I sent a lovely present and apologised that we could not attend.
Since then she has started to be difficult the thing is she is my neighbour,she started ignoring me ,talking to the neighbours standing outside when I return home,to which they now dont speak to me.
I can deal with that,but I asked her what the problem was as to why she was talking about me and the family and all was ok.
Recentley she is heard in the garden moaning about us saying we would report her as they were being slightly inconsiderate as they were in the garden till 3am with a toddler crying,drinking outside and not being very quiet,my dc's were poorly with a temparature so I was in their room,I had to close the window in the end hence the comment.
Came home my garden had mud scattered all over the pathway,and I had a plant broke I knocked the door and asked if they knew anything,she was busy and sent her ds to the door I said I will report it dont worry,there are only a few with dogs and hers has been caught in our garden before.
Since then we had on company turning up at the door saying we asked for them,when we didnt.
And then they are moaning about us loud enough for me to hear in the garden,I snapped and replied if you have a problem come and talk about it,like an adult instead of gossiping.
I have had enough,my dp says ignore them what do you think,i feel Im just as bad for replying arghh.
Im so sorry but I need to vent,I worried we will get kicked out of our housing place and life will be a nightmare now.
thanks for listening xx