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To Pull DS out of school for 6 months to travel

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ValentinCrimble · 07/10/2010 19:56

He is in year 2...his Dad recently got a contract in New Zealand for 18 months and we are missing one another badly! We had originally decided for myself and DS (6) DS (23 months) to stay on at home...and DH would visit ...with maybe us going over there for Xmas...we wanted to avoid too many expensive flights so we could save up cash for future.

Anyway...DH has one year left and it's killing us...DS misses Dad badly...as does little DS....DS is very happy at school.

I suggested that we go over at Xmas...and just stop on until July/August and then return in time for DS to begin year 3...my brother is willing to rent our house from us for the interim as he is currently living with our Mum having just had a bad divorce....the only thing I worry about is DS falling behind in school...though a tutor could be got in New Zealand...and I would probably home ed along with tutor help....I thought the freedom and cultural experience could possibly outweigh the messing about.

Will it be terribly damaging to DS's education? Help...DH got so excited when I mentioned it all...he's actually feeling ill with missing us.
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Oh I did mention it to DS and he was so pleased at the thought...he understands it is not definate and he understand he would be in year three on his return...he said "Great...I can send postcards!"

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beccagrace2 · 07/10/2010 20:30

go asap.....we took dd out for 8 months, best thing ever! you must visit nelson and able tasman..stunning!! very jealous

Hedgeblunder · 07/10/2010 20:30

Do it do it do it!
You speak the language and they sell hobnobs Grin

proudnglad · 07/10/2010 20:33

DO IT

cumfy · 07/10/2010 20:39

Can you just go now and stay til Aug/Sept ?

You'd probably catch their Term 4 (Mid-October til December).

tulipgrower · 07/10/2010 20:43

My family moved to Sweden for 6 months when I was 8 and my brother was 6. It was a fantastic experience. My mother had planned to home school us (she is a primary school teacher), but we didn't appreciate her efforts ;-) , so she sent us to a local school. We initially didn't speak Swedish, but somehow communicated, made friends and thrived. :-) It didn't harm our overall education, and we had no problems once we got back home.

loopyloops · 07/10/2010 21:06

I'm so excited for you! I hope you're looking at tickets now, to leave in a week or two. :)

BlueFergie · 07/10/2010 21:08

Oh you lucky lucky thing. Go go go quickly. Ask the school what will be covered, pack his school books and get over there. You'll be able to cover it with him yourself no problem and if not you can always sign him up for school there.

Amiable · 07/10/2010 21:20

No question - BOOK THE FLIGHTS NOW!!!!

Sounds like a fab opportunity... however (puts on voice of doom) be warned... DS will pick up the accent!! Grin

And don't forget, you can still MN while you are there - perfect!!

RatherBe · 07/10/2010 21:21

Another post saying do it. What a fantastic experience for all of you. If you don't I think it highly likely that you will kick yourself in the future.

ValentinCrimble · 07/10/2010 21:26

Thanks so much everyone....much happier now! I have been looking at tickets..God they are expensive! Thinking about Christmas over there...how odd that will be! ..wooo...all v. weird!xxx

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umf · 07/10/2010 21:31

Go go go!!! The only thing I'd worry about would be getting him back into same UK school, and you have that covered.

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