to think that a "routine" for a three day old is a bit

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Spoke to MIL yesterday and she told me that she is "helping SIL (just had a baby)to get baby into a routine".

When I had my ds there was lots of talk from MIL of routines, making rods for own backs and putting ds on "real milk" ie not breastfeeding and I took not a jot of notice and still don't.

Unfortunately SIL not too experienced with babies and depending on her Mum for advice and to help out.

Just made me feel a bit sad really.

No wanting to be snide or superior here. Really get on with my in laws actually, just find mil a bit old fashioned about this kind of thing.

Unfortunately live too far away to be any real help. Anyway as most have said sure will all turn out fine.

As for fishfingers my kids eat them at least three times a week and my ds has probably not had a piece of fruit in about a year so no ranting fishfinger posts from me.