To feel a bit annoyed with DH?

[emmyloulou]

I know it is more than likely my loony raving hormones own odd wobbly moment but I am a little bit pissed off, AIBU?

So 2 weeks to go until baby is here, my head is all over the show. Anyhow past week or so Hubby has been working on his website, it used to be is job but is now his hobby, I don't mind as he'll get minimal time when baby is here and he is helping me out a lot.

But we don't seem to be getting much "chill" time together which is starting to becoma a bit of an issue now, which I have already mentioned. I know our time will be very much restricted soon too, so would maybe like to make the most of it?

Get the kids in bed maybe some nights we could sit down together?

Anyway I have just been on to his site see how it's going to find out he spent all day yesteday, helping someone who needed it fucking damsel in distress rather than spending any time with me . Lots of thanks hun xxxx from her.

Oh and it was all in the open on the forums btw, not hidden, so nothing like that.

I know IABU so flame me, I need to have my head screwed back on again. Irrational jealous is not usually my bag, but then neither are mood swings

oooh he's a cuntwhacker, kick him in the manjo

Emmy, your jealousy is not irrational.

You need to make it clear that time spent fucking around on the internet, when he should be spending time with you is not accpetable. Don't be wishy washy, don't worry that you are hormonal and unreasonable. YOU ARE NOT.

His priorites are wrong.

YANBU.

My DH is reading this over my shoulder, he thinks your DH is 'a bit fucking stupid'.

Emmy - my husband has always been quite fixated with the internet and computers. As you might see from my recent thread, things have recently gone far too far. I am of course, not saying that this is the road that they all will go down. I think that the internet is compulsive.

Be clear with him how you are feeling. Tell him that he is behaving inappropriately.

Give me his web address and I'll see if I can flex my Denial of Service attack muscles...

Kidding.. OK!

YANBU, good luck with the birth etc... tell him I said he's to look after you, not some random waggon on t'internet.

Start to wail and cry, even if you don't feel like it, I bet you'll feel a lot better afterwards.

I have seen your thread pfft....un mumsnet hugs.

Anyhow thanks I just wanted to see if it was just me or if I were to confront him would it be a case of AIBU.

I was quite stern with him last night, and I explained I don't mind him spending time with his site etc, BUT he needs to remember I am there.

I also said to him to take a step back and look at this womans posts, I know he only wants to get his forums up and running and he has quite a big member base now but still.........

There was something that wasn't quite right IFYSWIM? She was there hanging on his every word, promptly replying, she kept bring up other issues to keep the exchange going, she had a real helpless act going on.

Anyway he didn't say much but he went out got some ingriedients cooked me dinner, and then we watched a film and went to bed early He took the day off today for my last hospital appt and we went out for the day.

Oh and I just looked on his website now, he has kinda thread killed it. He suggested google and left it open to more questions but not also, iyswim it was polite, he also casually but nicely dropped in the fact he had a wife .

I didn't ask him to do any of the above btw, but I know how these things can "slide" and creep up on you from nowhere. But as it goes she made a bit of a snotty reply and she has said nothing since. He made the thread killing post yesterday early eve after we had words.

So methinks this was a bit more to her to start as she got a bit shitty, when he suggested she used google etc and he was polite just made it clear he had no time to keep replying...........We'll see!

at PeterTong (why PeteRTong?)

Very glad to hear that your DH has listened and taken notice of how you feel.

Hope all continues to go well

Well done Emmyloulou and MrEmmyloulou!!

He sounds like a keeper after all It's rare to hear of a man that does the right thing without instructions! I'm very impressed - it's things like this that help to keep the faith that they aren't all useless shitbags!! Tell him he's done 'his kind' a good turn :)