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Was I, or was she?

18 replies

wholovesyou · 20/09/2010 12:01

This morning, on a packed commuter train, a huffy woman sat next to me, really squidged her bum in to the seat as she sat down, and took up half my seat with her huge paper, bottom and sprawling handbag. She seemed seriously miserable. I moved as close as I could to the side so she had more room but still she was flicking the paper in my face.

Before my stop, I stood up in good time as it can take a while to get off, revealing my huge bump. I stood there for about a minute trying to edge through without hitting either of her or the youth opposite her, and they could see I was getting off. Neither made an attempt to move their legs in (this womans handbag was threatening to fall off her lap and into the gangway)

I said excuse me but neither heard (or just ignored me) so I finally just thought screw this! And barged my way through. Yes the womans newspaper may have got knocked out of her hand. But Id attempted the polite way and nothing was happening.

Did I really deserve 'Oi lady woz ya problem???' and an accusational glare from the woman?

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StealthPolarBear · 20/09/2010 12:02

no, she was.

lovechildofBjork · 20/09/2010 12:04

No you didn't, but this is soooooooo common and people like this have no idea at all at how annoying their behaviour is. The large bottom issue is unfortunate, the rest just bloody rude!

wholovesyou · 20/09/2010 12:06

Perhaps my resentment towards her started with the paper thing! Blush

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strawberrycake · 20/09/2010 12:08

When I was pregnant I had a bit of a meltdown on the tube, you reacted quite calmly.

I was feeling crap and VERY puffy-footed and noone who give up a seat. The guy in the priority seat arranged his newspaper resting on my bump. Not accidently neatly folding it and carefully propping the floppy top on my bump. I reached down and screwed it into a ball then handed it back, saying nothing but eyeballing him throughout. He dropped it, sprung to the other end of the carriage and got out at the next stop. I think I looked a bit un-hinged.

Eglu · 20/09/2010 12:11

She was totally unreasonable, and strawberrycake Grin

2shoes · 20/09/2010 12:25

yanbu
she was rude

quiddity · 20/09/2010 12:50

strawberrycake, I love you Grin

Summerbird73 · 20/09/2010 13:05

strawberrycake you are legend!

wholovesyou you legend too! Grin

Spacehoppa · 20/09/2010 13:13

strawberrycake its worth another Grin

DanceInTheDark · 20/09/2010 13:32

Its occasions like that that i used to grab my bump and wince in pain. People move pretty quick if they think you have just gone into labour Grin

LittleMissHissyFit · 20/09/2010 13:39

Grin Grin for strawberrycake GrinGrin!

Feelingsensitive · 20/09/2010 13:42

She can't help the size of her bottom (well she kind of can but YKWIM) but the rest is her being rude. YANBU.

Feelingsensitive · 20/09/2010 13:43

I meant the rest of her behaviour was rude not everything except her bottom Blush Came out completely wrong. Think I better and go and get some washing done.

cupcakesandbunting · 20/09/2010 13:45

YANBU. I would have "accidentally-on-purpose" trod on her foot when making my way off the train for good measure.

wholovesyou · 20/09/2010 13:52

I too have an ample bottom. But she was one of those wriggler's that really love working their way into their seat at the expense of the person next to them!

After she spoke to me, I said "you werent going to move, were you?" she opened her mouth like I had insulted her whole family.

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pluperfect · 20/09/2010 13:57

"you werent going to move, were you?"

Fantastic.

newwave · 20/09/2010 14:59

Fuck them, pity you didnt step on her corns

DastardlyandSmugly · 20/09/2010 15:16

strawberrycake another Grin from me.

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