WWYD? DH was so pissed....

[CountessVonKnackerstein]

That he left his keys in the front door overnight
That he came in at 5, did a gigantic diarrea shite in the loo, didn't flush and now it's all stuck
That he left the light on in the bathroom whilst doing said gigantic poo and woke up me and kids
That it's our wedding anniversary today and I'm supposed to be nice to him but I feel like wringing my hands.

Or should I just smile sweetly and be evil cow tomorrow?

Prod him awake and hand him toilet brush and bleach.

I bet he is feeling rough enough already - hope he makes it up to you though. Keys are forgivable (unless house is burgled) but what is it with me and disgusting poo habits?!

Ugh. Nothing worse than when they're plastered (and you're not). I'd be giving him the silent treatment (I'm mature that way).

Personally i wouldn't feel like being nice to someone who didn't think through that drinking vast amounts wouldn't be a great thing to do the day before our anniversary.

Though I think waking him up to clean the loo is a pointless thing (though one that I would quiet like to do) because the chances of someone that hungover actually getting up and doing it are slim so you'd only irritate yourself trying to get him to do it.

I think ideally you're better off leaving the house with the kids and going somewhere nice and having a brilliant day with them and leave im a note for when he wakes up that he's too clean the loo (unless, like us, of course you don't have another for you all to use before you leave!!)

Mind you you might not want to listen to me as I have issues where husbands drinking is concerned and have been driven to the point with mine where I understand why people get the urge to kill.

I've cleaned the loo already, DS wasn't keen on trying to poo in dirty loo!
I have, instead, left him to look after two shrieking children downstairs while I MN in the bath

D0G how are you doing!?

He's out of bed?

Blardy hell I'm impressed!!

Yes he's up cos I got kids to jump on him downstairs at 8.30. (when he's pissed I ask him to sleep on sofa)

I found that if I was narky or shouty then he'd sulk and claim I was trying to control him . But if I was nice and light and friendly, he'd feel sooooo guilty that he'd do loads to make it up to me. So he'd clean up any mess (he'd do that regardless of course!), while making me coffee and offering to let me have a lie down later, or go out for a drive or whatever. And if the morning after the night before I told him to stay in bed and sleep for as long as he wanted, he was pathetically grateful and grovelling.

So I learned that I won got a better deal by being nice about it, than by being narky.

It wouldn't do for everyone, I know that. But it worked for me.

Agree with that HecateQueenOfWitches but sometimes being nice is very hard

I prefer to go out for the day with the kids and have a brilliant day and the let him be consumed with guilt that evening