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to be fuming with the topic on the Wright stuff...

41 replies

sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:16

...Before anyone's actually said anything.
"If you dress flirty, can you complain when you're treated 'dirty'"?
FFS Angry

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bluecardi · 17/09/2010 10:17

What a rubbish programme

truffleshuffle · 17/09/2010 10:18

Matthew Wright is a big cock

cupcakesandbunting · 17/09/2010 10:18

This is precisely the reason I don't watch this crap. Lazy television for the thickos.

Turn it off, OP. Save yourself a blood vessel. Grin

ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 17/09/2010 10:20

turn it off. don't waste your 'leccy

BootyMum · 17/09/2010 10:20

Hey, I quite like The Wright Stuff!!! Don't think I'm particularly thick Hmm

But don't agree with all opinions voiced. This segment on next after ads. Will judge once I've seen it. Think they're trying to whip up controversy imo.

sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:22

I know it is, but a lot of people watch it and I know they're going to put some vile argument forward as though it should be taken seriously.
Trying hard to turn it off, but I need to know just how bad he's going to be. (masochist emoticon)

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kerstina · 17/09/2010 10:23

I like the wright stuff too its a good mix of serious and light hearted stuff .I only found mumsnet thanks to him going on about it !

MollysChambers · 17/09/2010 10:25

Eh? If you dress flirty? What the hell is dressing "flirty"?

sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:28

He kindly elaborated; If you dress like "a piece of meat.." WTF?? How does meat dress? Are there women walking round splashed with marinade and nothing else?

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yawningprincess · 17/09/2010 10:28

watch jeremery kyle instead- gives me the feel good factor! Grin

BootyMum · 17/09/2010 10:35

Didn't hear anything in the segment that got my [exposed] knickers in a twist... Bit of a non-issue really imo. Didn't sound to me as if MW or any of the panel actually thought that if you dress flirty you just be treated dirty - stupid tagline though.

MollysChambers · 17/09/2010 10:36

www.thisisnotaninvitationtorapeme.co.uk/dress/
Can't find a link to the TV ads that accompanied this but thought they were excellent.

StealthPolarBear · 17/09/2010 10:37

yes YABU it's a valid question, to which the answer I hope what "YES you damn well can"
What do you mean it wasn't? Angry

sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:40

That's a great link MollysChambers, thanks.
It was a short segment, probably baiting the likes of MNers. By starting this thread I think I may have indirectly be 'feeding the troll'

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cupcakesandbunting · 17/09/2010 10:42

It's a question that shouldn't even be fucking debated, IMO, unless you are incredibly stupid.

StealthPolarBear · 17/09/2010 10:43

yes, you're right, was being flippant

Tippychoocks · 17/09/2010 10:43

I was watching it when ironing and shouting at t'telly. Not ONE person, out of a panel of 2 women and 2 men, suggested that it might be up to the rest of the world to take reponsibility for their own actions and not leer and shout at woment with low tops.

They all seemed to agree that if you get your norks out to any degree, you need to take what you get. Bootymum, we must have been watching a different show because while they agreed that dressing in revealing clothing was not an invitation to rape (good of them), it was a green light for others to leer and make comments.

sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:45

I don't think it is a valid question StealthPolarBear, certainly not the way he posed it.

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sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:47

Hehe, just saw your next comment Stealth. Damn! thought I'd been given my first Yabu!

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MollysChambers · 17/09/2010 10:47

I quite like The Wright Stuff generally but I think this is an issue that shouldn't be treated in a light hearted "lets stir up a bit of controversy" way. Not when how a women is dressed is still put forward as part of the defences case in rape trials. It shouldn't make a damn bit of difference.

sixpercenttruejedi · 17/09/2010 10:49

I agree, to keep bringing the argument up for debate gives it a false credibility.

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MollysChambers · 17/09/2010 10:50

And "piece of meat"! WTF???

NordicPrincess · 17/09/2010 10:51

isnt that the kind of programme closely followed by jeremey kyle? lord knob of them all?

Hedgeblunder · 17/09/2010 10:52

What bullshit.

booyhoo · 17/09/2010 10:55

oh, god even give that programme brainspace!!!!

it really is just a gap filler on ch5. no-one is expected to believe the stuff they 'debate'.