to think that a baby crying at night because of illness isn't the same as playing your music really loud all the blardy time!!

[memoo]

My nextdoor neighbour frequently has her music blasting, sometimes its so loud that I can feel the vibrations through the floor!!

I have just been round and very politely asked her if she can keep it down a bit, especially in the evenings when I am trying to get DD3 to sleep.

She was so rude and said that she'll continue to play her music as loud as she likes because I 'let' DD scream in the early hours of the morning!!

DD is just coming up for 12 months and has had a nightmare few weeks with her teeth coming through. I have spent many nights pacing the floor trying to sooth her but not much works really so its true that she has been crying a lot during the night but what the feck am I suppose to do?

Noise is noise - and you both are not being good neighbors to each other.

Be the bigger person and apologise to her about the baby teething and maybe you will see some kindness from her and she will try and keep her music at decent levels.