hi i have been with my oh for 10years all has been great a few bumps, but thats normal! the thing is i am very low on selfesteam, and confidance! he is pretty much the same, but more out going than me! i dont like poeple lol always see the worst and never trust people!he is very popular and well liked, we both love each other, get on well very alike! the thing is i am always worried he is cheating, he is quite flirty, all our female friends love him. have had to stop talking to some in the past as they got ott with him! he loves me and would never do it to me as he knows how it feels! but that dont stop me checking up on him. never found anything other than a few flirty messages. we both go on websites that are a wee bit naughty lol i stoped as it wasnt helping me feel better about myself! i dont mind him still going on and talking to women as long as its not anyone we both know! well last week i was being very nosey and checked his facebook and he was having a dirty conversation with a female friend of ours i was livid! he said it just happened, he never ment for it to! she was drunk, he was away at work. i text her and she was very sorry and said sorry as did he, we have sorted it out! but i cant help feeling i dont know? he has promist it will never happen again, but i'm worried sick it will? help wwyd?
TIA x