in not letting 13yr old DD have her belly, nose or tongue pierced?

[BigMommaOfAlmost4]

FFS please tell her whether I am. Am too tired to set out argument

what atswimtwolengths said - let her get a piercing, they heal. my mum put her foot down with the 'not under my roof' line so I went and got nose pierced and a tattoo the week before I left for uni. let her get something done but maybe compromise on 15?