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aristomache · 10/09/2010 00:11

would I be unreasonable to email ex ""cunt"" partner telling him what a shit parent he is.

I really want to say in said email that his (late)dad would be very proud of his parenting skills
as I know that would hurt him as much as he's hurt our daughter.

I'm fighting the fight within myself and have so far managed not to do it, BUT!!!

(there's always a but lol) tonight I am just a bit drunk and seriously cionsidering doing it.

I've written it in my head a hundred times...

should it just stay there?

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scurryfunge · 10/09/2010 00:16

Don't do it, you'll regret it and he will use it as ammunition in the future.

newwave · 10/09/2010 00:20

If you are going to do it the do it sober and when you are calm, not now or you will regret it.

Vallhala · 10/09/2010 00:24

Write it and put it into your email's draft folder. See how you feel having slept on it but don't act in haste, wanker he may be but you might regret it.

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aristomache · 10/09/2010 00:29

he deserves so much shit.

the only thing that's stopping me is that

I'm trying very hard to believe in karma, and not to lower myself

and 2) whatever he's done, he is her dad

^^the only TWO things that are stopping me (are fear & surprise lol)

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Dione · 10/09/2010 00:31

If you must, then write a letter by hand. It will help you get out everything you want to say without the risk of hitting a send buton.

newwave · 10/09/2010 00:35

Great idea, then you can scan it in and send it as an e mail attachment if you want to.

tortoiseonthehalfshell · 10/09/2010 01:05

I wouldn't, but you can vent to us, and we'll listen and agree that he's a cunt, if that'll help?

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